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These are common issues/concerns that some au pairs have and suggestions on how to avoid them
My name is Susan Brostowin. I have been a counselor since 1994. My service area includes the North Shore of Massachusetts, over to Billerica and the seacoast of New Hampshire. Enjoy my blog!
These are common issues/concerns that some au pairs have and suggestions on how to avoid them
After the decorations are put away, the celebrations are over, the New Year has begun: and the post holiday winter blues are starting to hit you and your host family. What can you do to get through the long cold winter months happily?
Dehydration The little ones, especially, forget to drink or to tell you that they need to drink. If you find the children not looking well and/or getting cranky toward the afternoon, it might be because they’re tired, or it might be because they’re dehydrated. Remember: By the time a person feels thirsty, he’s already partly dehydrated, so drink to prevent thirst, not to quench it. Common symptoms of dehydration are crankiness, headaches, aches in the joints and weariness. And don’t allow your child to fill up on juice or soft drinks; these are dehydrators. Water or child-appropriate hydrating drinks are best.
However, if you or your child has severe dehydration (dry mouth, sunken eyes, reluctant to drink, unable to pee or cry, high fever, lethargy), call for emergency help and have your child sip an electrolyte-replacement fluid (such as Pedialyte).
Hot Cars: Don’t EVER leave children alone in the car — not even for a moment. Besides the danger of abduction, the temperature in a car can skyrocket in minutes. And, if you see an unattended young child in a vehicle, please call 911, the police or other emergency personnel. Your call could save the child’s life.
Drowning: Always actively supervise children in and around water. Infants and children can drown in bathtubs, swimming pools, ponds or almost any other water. Toddlers aren’t strong enough to lift themselves back out of a toilet, bucket, container or wading pool.
Sun Protection: Children’s skin and eyes are more sensitive to ultraviolet rays. Babies should be protected from direct sun entirely. Toddlers, preschoolers and older children should be covered well in sunscreen (SPF 30 or higher) at least one half hour before going out in the sun. Sunscreen should be reapplied every hour or so, and it should be reapplied after the child has been in water. Don’t forget ears, hands, feet, lips and under the eyes. Also, make sure your child wears a hat and sunglasses when out in the sun for any length of time.
Election Day
Would you like to know more about the American political system? Check out http://bensguide.gpo.gov/ for a simple presentation of information about the US government including elections. Talk to the children about what you learned and create an Election Day theme at home: decorate in red, white and blue (how about colored napkins on the table?) Put out an American flag, and serve red, white and blue snacks. Blue and white corn chips with red salsa, vanilla ice cream with strawberries and blueberries or layers of colored Jell-o served with whipped cream.
Daylight Savings Time EndsMove your clocks back one hour before going to bed on Saturday night and enjoy the extra hour of sleep…
Veteran’s DayA day to honor American veterans of all wars, Veteran’s Day is a federal holiday. You can find some suggestions of activities to do with children at www.va.gov/KIDS/.
ThanksgivingThanksgiving dates back to the first European settlers in North America. After hardship, illness and hard work, the Pilgrims celebrated a successful harvest that they shared with their Native American friends. This national holiday is a day to feast and give thanks. Visit this site to compare Thanksgiving to other harvest festivals: www.familyculture.com/holidays/thanksgiving.htm.

Black Friday is the Friday after Thanksgiving and is the beginning of the traditional Christmas shopping season. Black Friday is not an official holiday, but many employees take the day off, which increases the number of potential shoppers. Many retailers open very early (typically 5 am or even earlier) and offer door buster deals and loss leaders to draw people to their stores. Merchants and the media use the term Black Friday to refer to the beginning of the period in which retailers are in the black (i.e., turning a profit).
There will be a Civil War Encampment (people dress and act like they did during our Civil War) –a live history lesson.
The program will run from Saturday to Sunday and feature camp life, cannon firing demonstrations every hour, blacksmiths, military drills, people walking around in period clothes, games for children and even a Saturday night pig roast. The weekend program begins 9am on Saturday and 9:30am Sunday. With programs lasting into the evening both days.
Location: Campagnone Common in Lawrence, Mass. Events are open to the public for free.
JOIN US on September 17-19 and 24-26 http://www.essexheritage.org/ts/
Take advantage of some interesting activities, most of them are free and open to the public. It would be a good idea to plan ahead; look over the site and make a plan to enjoy the activities. You can use www.mapquest.com to figure out how far from your house the activity is. Most of them are located in our cluster area in Massachusetts or the towns next door.

It is that time of year again when students of all ages get ready for the first day of school. Here are some tips to assist with the “back to school” transition and hopefully great start to the new school year.
MAKING THE FIRST DAY EASIER
BACKPACK SAFETY
Tips from the American Academy of Pediatrics