The basis for developing a trusting relationship is good communication. Good contact between the host family, au pair and community counselor is the best recipe for success on our program. Here are some tips about how to get your match off to the best possible start:

• Family Time – Spend time with your new family; the more you get to know them, the more comfortable you will feel.
• Time to Talk – Set aside some time each week with your host family to talk about how things are going, ask questions, and discuss any concerns.
• The Schedule – Review and discuss the schedule and your duties, making sure you really understand what is being asked of you.
• Vacation Planning – Discuss vacation time as early as possible so you can choose weeks/days that work for you and your host family.
• Classes – Review your education options and discuss your preferences with your host family.
• Cluster Meetings – Attend the cluster meetings, as they are a great way to have fun with other au pairs and connect with your community counselor.
• Monthly Contact – Your counselor is required to touch base with you once a month; let her know how things are going.

Support – If you are concerned or worried about anything at all, let your counselor know!