Yearly Archives: 2011

Tips for a Good Year

Hints for success

Many of you have been here for several months, don’t; let yourself get into a routine of not doing your best.  Take initiative – don’t wait to be asked, anticipate children’s needs, offer to help when you are sharing “family time.”

 

Internet use-Don’t use the internet to vent.  Remember anything you post on Facebook or other social networking sites can be seem by millions of people.  Don’t be fooled into thinking that a post in your native language won’t be understood!  If you are having a bad day, call me or a friend.

 

Drinking Age: It’s the Law!
As you know, it is illegal to buy or drink alcohol, beer and wine in the United States if you are under 21 years of age. If someone buys alcohol for others who are under 21, it is the person who is buying the alcohol who will be in trouble with the law. It is not a chance worth taking. Do not put your friends in an embarrassing or dangerous position by asking them to buy alcohol for you if you are under 21!

 

Flowers

The saying goes that April showers bring May flowers.  Start your own flowers indoors.  Marigolds and Morning Glories grow quickly from seed and can be planted outdoors in the garden after they are a few inches tall.  Use a flower pot or even an old yogurt container, follow the directions on the seed packet and don’t forget to water the pot! 

 

Pen Friends 

Do you have any friends or relatives in your home country with children close to the age of your school-age children?  You can encourage them to exchange letters (or emails).  Simple notes or even pictures arriving by overseas mail are very exciting for children (and au pairs).

May Calendar

May 1 – May Day is a spring festival celebrating the renewal of nature.   It was especially popular in England during medieval times, with children dancing around the Maypole.  May Day is a holiday similar to Labor Day in the U.S.

May 2 – Minuteman 5 K Road Race – This event begins and finishes at Compo Beach.  For further information, please contact 203-222-7447

May 2-8 Children’s Book Week –Every day is a good day to read to the children. Click on this website for more literacy ideas to make reading even more fun! http://www.bookweekonline.com/about  Or, visit the Westport Library, a great place to take the children!

May 3 – Teacher Appreciation Day – Today is a day to honor teachers – if your child is in school he or she might want to make a card for the teacher.  Preschool age children 3-5 love playing school.  Let the child be the teacher and read you a story or give you homework.  You might want to invite some dolls or stuffed animals into the classroom as well.

 

 May 5 – Cinco de mayo commemorates the May 5, 1862 Battle of Puebla in which Mexican troops defeated Napoleon’s French forces.

May 8- Mother’s Day -Today is a day to celebrate and pamper Mom.  Help the children make cards or gifts or plan a special meal or other surprise for Mom. 

 

May 8 – International Red Cross Day  – The Red Cross offers a wide range of health and disaster relief services all over the world. School age children can learn more about their work at http://www.redcross.org/. Au Pairs can register for CPR and first aid classes by calling me or the Red Cross. Today is a good day to check your first aid supplies in the house. Young children might want to play doctor with their dolls or stuffed animals

May 15 – 9th Annual Castles in the Sand – Celebrate an afternoon of family, friends and fun as the community raises funds to support the homeless and other neighbors in need.  The build-a-thon will be held at Compo Beach from noon to 4 p.m.  Call Interfaith Housing at 203-226-3426 ext. 11 if you would like to reserve a sand-sculpting lot or obtain further information.

APIA Culture Fair at the Discovery Museum 4450 Park Avenue in Bridgeport from noon to 3 p.m. Meet other au pairs and see other cultures. 

May 30- Memorial Day  _ Memorial Day started in 1868 after the Civil War ended.  Dead soldiers from both the north and the south were honored as a way to try to heal the nation.  Now all past soldiers are honored.  It is also a day that is considered to be the start of the summer season.  Many people celebrate with a cook-out or even a trip to the beach.  Westport’s Memorial Day parade will be Monday May 31st.  It will begin at 9 a.m. at Saugatuck Elementary School, travel up Riverside Avenue, over the Post Road and on to Town Hall. 

Childcare focus – Cleaning Up Made Easy

Is it hard to get cooperation at clean-up time?
Turn clean-up time into a game. Try throwing a die, if it lands on one, the person who threw the die must clean-up one thing, if the die lands on four, he or she must pick up four things, and so on. Everyone plays (even the au pair)!

April Calendar

April 1- April Fools Day – Today is generally observed by tricking someone. Think of a silly and harmless trick to play. Work with the children to write a silly story to read to the parents. Try serving breakfast foods for dinner or some other harmless way to trick the children.

April 7 – World Health Day – This is a good day for children to learn about how their body works, and to discuss good health habits. Remind them about the importance of covering their mouth when they cough or sneeze and to always wash their hands before they eat.

April 19 Passover-Passover, also known as Pesach or Pesah, is a Holy Day, observed by several religions, begins today and lasts seven or eight days, depending on your beliefs.  It commemorates the exodus and freedom of the Israelites from Egypt.  It is also observed by some Christians to commemorate the deliverance from sin by the sacrifice of Jesus.

April 24- Easter is an annual festival commemorating the resurrection of Jesus Christ.  It is always celebrated on a Sunday. 

Touch a Truck

Annika, Vivi, Aicha, Sarah, Julia, Susanne, Denise, Daniela and Andrea braved the cold Saturday March 26th and volunteered to face paint and apply tattoes to the children who attended the  annual Touch A Truck  event, a fund raiser for the Westport-Weston Pre School.  Wind IMG_0004IMG_0011IMG_0012IMG_0013IMG_0014and bitter cold temperatures did not stop everyone from having some fun.

Good Bye Winter – A Global Awareness Presentation

 

Aneta Orkwiszewska, an au pair from Poland, took part in the “Hands Around A World” program at A Child’s Place at 90 Hillspoint Road on Wednesday March 23rd.  She told the class of four and five year olds about the March 21st Polish holiday, Topienie Marzanny, a holiday which celebrates the arrival of Spring. 

In Poland, Marzanna, the evil winter goddess, is usually depicted as a doll made of straw.  At the end of winter, she is burned or thrown in the water so that Spring can arrive.  For Spring to come to Westport, the children had to find Marzanna and lock her in a cabinet.  To get ready for their search, each child had to perform an interactive task, such as clapping hands, hopping twice on one foot, drawing a tree and house or jumping like a rabbit.  The class then followed the picture clues placed around the school to find the wicked Marzanna.  After successfully locking her up so Spring can arrive, the children feasted on Krowki Milanowski, Polish fudge candies, and played a Polish version of “Head, Shoulders, Knees and Toes””  It was a fun morning for all.  Thanks, Aneta, for sharing a little of your Polish culture.  IMG_0001IMG_0008IMG_0009IMG_0013

March Cluster Meeting

Au pairs gathered at my house to hear about our Culture Fair 2011, which will be held at the Discovery Museum,  and the Spring Touch A Truck Event at the Coleytown Elementary School. We said good bye to Joyce and hello to Stav, Abi and Candy.IMG_0001IMG_0002

March Calendar

Windy Days – March is known for its windy days. It is a great month to fly a kite

Sidewalk Chalk– Take advantage of a mild day and head outside to draw on the sidewalk with chalk. Kids love to have their whole body outlined and then fill in the drawing with clothes and a face. If you still have ice or snow outside try white or colored chalk inside on construction paper or brown wrapping paper. The drawings can be made permanent, so they won’t rub off, by spraying with aerosol hair spray (best to spray outside, and certainly away from the children).

March 9  – Ash Wednesday – Ash Wednesday, in Christian churches, is the first day of the penitential season of Lent.  On Ash Wednesday some Christians have a smudge of ashes placed on their foreheads at Church as a sign of penitence.

March 13 Daylight Saving Time Be sure to set the clocks forward one hour!  Don’t be late for work!

March 17 – St. Patrick’s Day – St. Patrick is said to have given a sermon from a hilltop that drove all the snakes from Ireland.  St. Patrick’s Day has been celebrated in the US since 1737.  Traditional icons of the day are the shamrock, leprechaun, the color green and the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. In Chicago, they city celebrates with a parade and the Chicago River is dyed green!  There is a big parade in New York City.

March 20 – Today is the first day of spring!  Take a walk outside and look for signs of spring – swelling buds on the trees, flowers poking up from the ground, more birds back in the trees.  Take the kids to the Compo Beach Playground and enjoy the view.  After this rough winter most of Westport will be down there!

March 20 Purim –The Festival of Purim is one of the most joyous and fun holidays on the Jewish calendar.  There are four commandments for Purim: the reading of the story of Esther, festivity and rejoicing, sending gifts (usually food), and gifts to the poor.  It is customary to dress in costume for the celebration.  (Note: all Jewish holidays begin at sundown and end the following day at sundown.)

Multi Cluster Scavenger Hunt

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Westport Au Pairs
Westport Au Pairs

First Place WinnersWestport Au PairsAu pairs from Westport, Fairfield, Redding, Ridgefield and Trumbull gathered Sunday February 13th at the Trumbull Mall for a scavenger hunt.  Prizes were given for the first three winning teams and a good time was had by all!  2nd Prize Winners

February Events:

February 2 – Ground Hog Day – Traditionally, the groundhog is supposed to wake up on February 2, and come up out of his burrow. If he sees his shadow, he will return to the burrow for six more weeks of winter. If he doesn’t see his shadow, he remains outside and starts his year, because he knows that spring has arrived early. In the U.S., the “official” groundhog is kept in Punxsutawney, Pennsylvania and is called “Phil.” Though not based in science, it is a fun US tradition.  The movie, starring Bill Murray is hilarious!

February 3 Chinese New Year – The oldest and most important festival in China is the Spring Festival, more commonly known in the West as Chinese New Year. 2011 is the year of the Rabbit.  The celebrations generally run from February 2 through February 15, the day of the lantern festival celebration.

February 6- Super Bowl Sunday! – This year’s game features the Pittsburgh Steelers vs. the Green Bay Packers.  The Super Bowl is the annual American Football championship and a popular time for friends to gather in front of the TV. Each year millions of people watch the game, the half-time show – or just the commercials!  People will be talking about the commercials for days. To learn more about football visit the “Life in the US” section of this website http://aupairinamerica.com/resources/life_in_the_us/football.asp

February 8 Boy Scout Day – Boy Scout Day celebrates the birthday of Scouting in America. It was on February 8th 1910 when William Dickson Boyce filed incorporation papers in the District of Columbia and created the Boy Scouts of America.  If your host child is a Boy or Girl Scout, think about doing a Global Awareness presentation for the troop. 

February 14 – Valentine’s Day –  Valentine’s Day is a time of love, friendship, giving, and caring. Americans use Valentine’s Day as an opportunity to tell friends and family how much they care.  Children usually exchange cards at school.  A fun activity to do with the children is to have them make their own Valentine’s Day cards for their parents, friends and school mates.

February 17- Random Acts of Kindness Day – Today is Random Acts of Kindness Day. So…perform a few random acts of kindness- hold the door for a stranger, let someone go ahead of you in line at the grocery store, pay the road toll for the car behind you, give a compliment…the ideas are endless. See if you can “pay it forward” and make today a great day!

February –21 President’s Day – (Westport schools are closed Feb. 21-25th)  President’s Day is a Federal holiday created to commemorate the births of former Presidents George Washington (Feb. 22) and Abraham Lincoln (Feb. 12). Throughout America, Presidents’ Day is observed by big sales in retail stores, closed schools and no mail delivery.  Things to do with children: The United States has had more than 40 presidents. How many can the children name? Who has been president during their lifetime? Take a look at American coins and bills; who are the Presidents pictured on each coin and bill?

February 18 – Louis Tiffany – Born in 1848 Tiffany (whose father started the Tiffany jewelry store) was a very fine painter but is best known for his work in stained glass. Make your own “stained glass” by following these easy instructions. This is a perfect use for broken crayons. Spread out newspaper and make crayon shavings (a small pencil sharpener is perfect for this). Cover the ironing board with newspaper and sprinkle the crayon shavings on a square of wax paper. Cover with another square of wax paper and more newspaper. Press the paper with a warm iron until the wax of the crayons is melted. These look beautiful hung in the window! Make a frame out of construction paper if you wish.

February 20 – Post Office – On this day in 1792 the first postal service was created in the United States. Preschool and young elementary age children will love to create their own post office at home. You need envelopes (you can use new ones or save the return envelopes from junk mail), a rubber stamp and inkpad, stickers and some paper. Children can write a note or draw a picture to put in the envelope. They can use the stickers as stamps and the rubber stamp to make the “postmark.” They can deliver the mail to bedrooms or you can create mailboxes by stacking a few empty shoeboxes on their sides.

 

Childcare focus-Whether you are at the park, in the backyard or in the playroom, stay with the children at all times!  If you are on duty the safety and well being of the children is your job.  If you have a middle-schooler, who is able to walk to and from school, or play outside with friends, you still need to know where he/she is and whether an adult is present. Make plans for when he/she will call you, where you can find him/her, and what time you expect him/her home.

Driving- Due to the enormous piles of snow, drivers are having difficulty seeing other cars when pulling out on to a street.  Slow down.  Be ready to stop and/or use your horn to warn drivers not to move forward and cut you off. 

Education- Have you given your counselor your proof of education yet?  All proof of education must state your name, ID number, school attended, course title, and number of credits/hours earned. If I do not have proof that your education requirement has been completed, your completion bonus, if you are eligible to receive one, will be withheld and you forfeit the opportunity to extend.

The following documents are acceptable proof of your education completed:

~Letter from the school on letterhead

~Completion certificate from the school

~School transcript

 

Safety Childproofing With shorter days and colder weather, you and the children are probably spending more time inside the house. Please be sure that the house is “childproof” with these simple tips:

  • Children are curious; many small children put everything into their mouths. Be sure no small objects, plastic bags or long cords are within the child’s reach.
  • Be sure that laundry soap and other cleaners are out of reach of the children.
  • Keep medicines, and cosmetic items such as mouthwash, perfume, nail polish, and hair spray  out of reach of children
  • Keep scissors and knives out of reach.
  • Store the toys that belong to older children out of reach of babies and toddlers.

 

Hints for success– Respect the privacy of others. Be considerate and appreciative, especially when using things that do not belong to you.

Enjoy February!