{"id":1962,"date":"2013-09-10T14:08:57","date_gmt":"2013-09-10T18:08:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.aupairinamerica.com\/mdf\/2011\/08\/30\/hints-for-success-%e2%80%93-homesicknessculture-shock\/"},"modified":"2013-09-10T14:08:57","modified_gmt":"2013-09-10T18:08:57","slug":"hints-for-success-homesicknessculture-shock","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.aupairinamerica.com\/mdf\/2013\/09\/10\/hints-for-success-homesicknessculture-shock\/","title":{"rendered":"Hints for Success \u2013 Homesickness\/Culture Shock"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"heartAlmost everyone experiences culture shock when they come to a completely new environment. Everything is different: the language, the food, and the people.\u00a0 <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Here are my Top 5 Tips for<\/strong><\/span>
\n Dealing with Homesickness<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

1. Make Friends <\/strong>– Don’t wait for other au pairs to reach out to you, reach out to them. There are other lots of new au pairs who are feeling the same way you are right now. Set a goal to reach out to a few of them each day. Some will respond and some will not. Don’t let that discourage you. No one will ever be mad at you for sending them a message to say hello or ask if they want to do something together. Make friends from various countries and you will also get a chance to practice your English skills together.<\/p>\n

2. Stay in touch with your home country, but not too much.<\/strong> Skyping or talking on the phone every day with your family and\/or friends back home normally makes homesickness worse. Try emailing instead and reduce the Skype and phone calls to once a week, until you feel stronger. It’s much harder seeing the faces and hearing the voices of those you miss.<\/p>\n

3. Get out of the house (or your room specifically)<\/strong> – Go to cluster meetings, have coffee or movies with other au pairs, join a gym, go to the library, go for a walk, visit the mall, get a manicure, visit a museum. If someone invites you out, say “yes.” Also, don’t be afraid to do the inviting. If your host family invites you to do things with them, say “yes.” This will help you get to know each other and contribute to your overall happiness.<\/p>\n

4. Realize that it definitely gets better<\/strong> – All au pairs experience homesickness and nearly all of them stay and have a successful year (some stay for two years.) So, it must get better, right? Once you get past the initial homesickness, most au pairs report how quickly the year goes by.<\/p>\n

5. Make Plans<\/strong> – Create your own Au Pair Bucket List (places you want to go, new foods to try, new things to experience during your year in the U.S.) and start doing them now<\/span>. Post on our cluster Facebook group to find others who may want to join you on your adventures.<\/p>\n

Contest<\/strong>:<\/span> Au pairs in my cluster, make your Au Pair Bucket List and send me a file, link or picture of it for a chance to win a $20 Starbucks gift card. Entries must be received by Friday, September 27. Winner will be announced at the September Coffee Meeting on September 29.<\/p>\n

Photo by:\u00a0 Shimelle Laine (Flickr)<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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