{"id":3391,"date":"2015-09-28T07:00:13","date_gmt":"2015-09-28T07:00:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.aupairinamerica.com\/mdf\/?p=3391"},"modified":"2015-09-28T14:49:57","modified_gmt":"2015-09-28T14:49:57","slug":"going-unplugged-during-work-hours-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.aupairinamerica.com\/mdf\/2015\/09\/28\/going-unplugged-during-work-hours-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Going Unplugged During Work Hours"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: Arial; background-color: transparent; font-weight: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; vertical-align: baseline;\">Au Pairs<\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;\">\u00a0&#8211; Imagine for a moment that you went to the hospital and you were in the care of doctors and nurses.\u00a0 How would you feel if those doctors and nurses who were there to care for you were more interested in texting or using their personal computer than caring for you?\u00a0 How would that make you feel, about yourself and about them?\u00a0 Would you think that you were getting the treatment you deserved?\u00a0 Would you feel like paying the bill after your stay?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;\">Life as an au pair, it is a fine balance between employee and family member. You live with your host family and participate with them as a member of the family, but you also have clear responsibilities as a childcare provider. Being a childcare provider is truly one of the most important jobs I can think of, because you are helping to shape our next generation.\u00a0 What message are you sending them when you would rather interact with a computer than with them? How will they feel about themselves and about you? Children feel as though everything is about them. They will see this as a rejection of them and they will be more likely to act out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;\">It also poses a safety concern when you are not paying enough attention to the children in your care.\u00a0 Accidents happen, but when an adult care giver is close by and appropriately supervising the chances of a major injury dramatically reduce.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: bold; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.aupairinamerica.com\/mdf\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2011\/05\/fb-twitter-youtube.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"266\" height=\"189\" \/>During work hours, the following would\u00a0<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">not<\/span>\u00a0be considered acceptable:<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;\">-Texting<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;\">-Talking to friends on the phone<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;\">-Chatting with friends online<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;\">-Using Skype\u00a0or FaceTime\u00a0<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;\">-IMing<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;\">-Emailing<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;\">-Updating your status on Facebook<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;\">-Using Snapchat, WhatsApp\u00a0or any other app or social media site<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;\">-Watching videos on YouTube<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;\">-Tweeting on Twitter<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;\">-Uploading photos on Instagram\u00a0<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;\">-Anything else on the computer unless it is going to Nickjr.com together with your host children<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;\">Think about this &#8212; even if you work 45 hours a week, that leaves you 123 hours per week for all of that other stuff, or about 70 hours (if you are getting the recommended 7-8 hours of sleep per night.)<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: Arial; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-weight: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; vertical-align: baseline; text-decoration: underline;\">Host 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