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Phones, tablets, and laptops are wonderful tools to stay connected and informed, but we need to be careful not to let them become distractions from real life\u00a0interactions and most importantly our responsibilities.<\/p>\n

\"jason-howie-flickr\"<\/a>Au Pairs<\/strong> \u2013 Imagine for a moment that you went to the hospital and you were in the care of doctors and nurses. \u00a0How would you feel if those doctors and nurses who were there to care for you were more interested in texting or using their personal computer than caring for you? \u00a0How would that make you feel, about yourself and about them? \u00a0Would you think that you were getting good treatment Would you feel like paying the bill?<\/p>\n

Life as an au pair, it is a fine balance between employee and family member. You live with your host family and participate with them as a member of the family, but you also have clear responsibilities as a childcare provider. Being a childcare provider is truly one of the most important jobs I can think of, because you are helping to shape our next generation. \u00a0What message are you sending them when you would rather interact with a computer than with them? How will they feel about themselves and about you? Children feel as though everything is about them. They will see this as a rejection of them and they will be more likely to act out.<\/p>\n

It also poses a safety concern when you are not paying enough attention to the children in your care. \u00a0Accidents happen, but when an adult care giver is close by and appropriately supervising the chances of a major injury dramatically reduce.<\/p>\n

During work hours, communicating with friends and family in the following would not be considered acceptable (limited use should be discussed with your host family). If you have a break or nap time, this would be a suitable time and of course communicating with the family, APIA staff or directly regarding the children to set up playdates or the like:<\/strong>
\n-Texting
\n-Talking to friends on the phone
\n-Chatting with friends online
\n-Using Skype or FaceTime
\n-IMing
\n-Emailing
\n-Updating your status on Facebook
\n-Using Snapchat, WhatsApp or any other app or social media site
\n-Watching videos on YouTube, Netflix, etc.
\n-Tweeting on Twitter
\n-Uploading photos on Instagram
\n-Anything else online unless it is going to approved child sites such as Nickjr.com together with your host children<\/p>\n

Think about this \u2014 even if you work 45 hours a week, that leaves you 123 hours per week for all of that other stuff, or about 70 hours (if you are getting the recommended 7-8 hours of sleep per night). Your host parents will give you guidelines for your use during work hours, please follow them.<\/p>\n

Host Parents<\/strong> \u2013 You need to be clear about what you consider acceptable during work hours to avoid misunderstandings.\u00a0 Taking a short phone call while still being attentive to the children, checking email during nap time, researching activities to do with the kids, etc. Set clear expectations and be specific to your au pairs. Also, please understand that you are dealing with a new generation of people who are very accustomed to being plugged in at all times. \u00a0Their intention is not to be rude, they don\u2019t necessarily realize how their actions will be perceived. \u00a0Please use this information as an opportunity to begin a dialogue on the issue.<\/p>\n

Know that there will be times that your au pair needs to make calls or emails to communicate with you, APIA staff, school or personal appointments, etc. Time differences may make communicating with their family at home challenging. Communication between you and your au pair is crucial.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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