Monthly Archives: September 2015

Getting School Age Host Children To Talk About Their Day

1.

Allow the child some time to wind down from his/her day. You

may be tempted to ask your host child about their day as soon

as you see them. Children may need some time to pass before

they want to open up about their day. They may be more willing

to share stories if you give them some time to get out of school

mode.

2.

Ask your host child specific questions. If you ask “how was your

day” you may find you get the same response every day. Here are

some examples of questions to stimulate conversation:

“Who did you eat lunch with?”

“What did you play at recess?”

“Tell me one new thing your teacher taught you today?”

“What was the best thing that happened at school today?”

3.

Tell your host child about your day. Talking about what you did

may start conversation and encourage your host child to share.

4.

Be silly. If you have young host children do not be afraid to act a

little silly. You can start a conversation by telling them how you

think their day went and mentioning silly things. For example,

“Let me guess something fun that happened today. Did a hot air

balloon land at recess and everyone took a hot air balloon ride?”

5.

Be patient. All children are different and some are more willing to

share stories. If you are consistent with your communication, your

host child will follow your cues and open up

 

Happy Labor Day!

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Dear au pairs, here is some information about Labor Day in the United States:
The Workman’s Holiday ~ Dedicated in honor of the worker, Labor Day is also known as the “workingman’s holiday”. The holiday is dedicated to all workers in the United States in respect and appreciation for the work they do in or outside of the home, union or non-union, big companies and small companies and au pairs too. As long as you work somewhere at something, this holiday is for you! It is a day to celebrate your contribution to American working life and the work you do.
The First Labor Day ~ The first Labor Day was celebrated in New York City on September 5, 1882 and was started by the Central Labor Union in New York City. In 1884, it was moved to the first Monday in September where it is celebrated today. Labor Day quickly became popular and one state after another voted it as a holiday. On June 28, 1894, the U.S. congress voted it a national holiday.
The End of Summer ~ Labor Day is also viewed as the official end of summer. While the Fall Equinox is still a couple of weeks away, kids go back to school and summer vacations are over. This day is celebrated with a long weekend off from work and union sponsored parades. Many people celebrate this weekend with one last picnic. It is also the date that many people close up the swimming pool, and put away the boats.
Was it McGuire or Maguire? Either Peter McGuire or Matthew Maguire is the Creator of Labor Day. Peter J. McGuire, was an active labor organizer. He was also general secretary of the Brotherhood of Carpenters and Joiners and a co-founder of the American Federation of Labor. He was believed to be the first to suggest a day be dedicated to American workers and their accomplishments. Matthew Maguire however, was secretary of the Central Labor Union in New York in 1882 and many believed that he proposed the holiday in 1882.
So What do Americans eat on Labor Day? Picnics and barbecues are popular ways  to celebrate Labor Day.  Old standards are hamburgers, corn dogs, coleslaw, potato salad  corn on the cob, baked beans and sliced tomatoes. Finish up with sliced watermelon, apple or blueberry  pie and freshly churned ice cream.  Sound good?  Want to try a recipe? 
 
What can you do with the kids on Labor Day?  Schools are usually closed on labor day so the children are home for the day.  Generally Americans love long weekends and it is an extra special time for families to be together.  Join in and be part of the family activities.  Enjoy your first Labor Day Weekend in the United States.  If you recently arrived this is a great weekend to bond with the kids and get to know them.  Go for a bike ride, play in the back yard, go to the park or enjoy the beach and the pool before the fall weather arrives.  For indoor quiet activities try these:
 
Click here for Labor Day coloring pages: 
Click here for Labor Day short stories for children:

Importance of Play

Play. Play. Play. Have you ever seen a child who wanted to stop playing? Play is an important childhood activity and a natural part of a child’s life. Young children do not differentiate between play, work and learning. Children learn about the world around them through play. They enjoy playing and will do it whenever they can.

Do you remember playing as a young child? You may remember riding your bike, sliding down a hill, playing games or playing with your friends. Play is an integral part of children’s lives. Children love to play and they should – it is essential for their overall growth and development!

Play contributes to all areas of a child’s development: physical, cognitive (mental), social and emotional. Playing contributes to the physical development of children by giving them opportunities to explore, discover and master physical skills. Children practice large motor skills by running, jumping, swinging, riding bikes, and kicking balls. They practice fine motor development when drawing with markers or crayons, cutting scissors, or playing with playdough.

Play contributes to children’s cognitive growth and development. By playing children learn concepts, sort and classify information, build their vocabulary, probe for answers, problem-solve, and develop critical thinking skills. Play offers children opportunities to gain more information that sets the foundation for additional learning. For example, when playing with blocks a child may learn that two small blocks equals one large block. Block play can become the foundation for learning math skills and fractions as children get older, and is one example of the endless learning opportunities that exist through play.

Play is vital to a child’s social development. Children learn social skills as they relate to each other while playing. Play helps children learn to get along with others, to share, to take turns, to negotiate, and to compromise. While playing children also discover that not everyone behaves the same way and that some behaviors are not acceptable.

Finally, play contributes to the emotional development of children. Playing provides a way for children to express their feelings and to learn about the feelings of others. Play can help children reduce anxieties, fears and stress. When playing, children develop self-confidence and learn to control their emotional reactions and impulses.

Children at different ages will play differently. Very young children such as infants and toddlers tend to play alone in what is called solitary play. Near age three, children become very interested in pretend or imaginative play. Four-year-olds tend to be more aggressive in their play, while five-year-olds can separate the real world from imaginary play. The older children become, the more they are interested in playing with their friends and peers.

Children should have sufficient time and space for play every day. Children do not necessarily need many playthings – sometimes just their imagination is enough. Accept the playfulness in yourself and have fun with the children. Play is what childhood is all about!

 

Volunteering at Katrina 10

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Au pairs jumped at the opportunity to support their “home for a year” city.

Desiree from South Africa, Nadine, Johanna and Anastasia from Germany joined volunteers at Citywide Day of Service – Katrina 10: Resilient New Orleans.

They spent Saturday, August 29th (the 10th anniversary of Katrina’s strike) working hard at Gentilly Terrace Charter School. They said it was fun and rewarding experience.