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Happy Halloween

NOLHappyHalloweenHello dear au pairs,

I hope the pumpkins are carved, the costumes are ready and you’re looking forward to going trick and treating with your host children.

Happy Halloween!

Halloween, what is it all about?

Halloween is celebrated across the United States on October 31st.  Not all,  but most families will participate in some aspect of the Halloween holiday traditions.  This may be a new experience for you so It is a good idea to talk to your host family ahead of time and find out how they celebrate. 

Like many other holidays, Halloween has changed throughout history. Over 2,000 years ago people called the Celts lived in what is now Ireland, the UK, and parts of Northern France. November 1 was their New Year’s Day. They believed that the night before the New Year (October 31) was a time when the living and the dead came together.

More than a thousand years ago the Christian church named November 1st All Saints Day.  This was a special holy day to honor the saints and other people who died for their religion. The night before All Hallows was called Hallows Eve. Later the name was changed to Halloween.

Like the Celts, the Europeans of that time also believed that the spirits of the dead would visit the earth on Halloween. They worried that evil spirits would cause problems or hurt them. So on that night people wore costumes that looked like ghosts or other evil creatures. They thought if they dressed like that, the spirits would think they were also dead and not harm them.

The tradition of Halloween was carried to America by the immigrating Europeans. Some of the traditions changed a little, though. For example, on Halloween in Europe some people would carry lanterns made from turnips. In America, pumpkins were more common. So people began putting candles inside them and using them as lanterns. That is why you see Jack ‘o lanterns today.

These days Halloween is not usually considered a religious holiday. It is primarily a fun day for children. Children dress up in costumes like people did a thousand years ago. But instead of worrying about evil spirits, they go from house to house. They knock on doors and say “trick or treat.” The owner of each house gives candy or something special to each trick or treater.

 

 

 

Welcoming Au Pair to Your Home

After you match with your new au pair and arrange her travel from orientation to your community, it’s very important to keep in touch with her prior to her arrival. Please keep in mind that you have opened your home to someone else’s daughter. There are many things you can do that will help her to feel welcome in your home. An email to check in every so often is reassuring and builds the bonds you started to form when you offered her a home for a year. Sending photos of the children or pictures they have drawn is also a welcome form of connection.

Once your au pair arrives at orientation, please call her to welcome her. It makes the au pair feel much more comfortable to hear from you while she is at orientation.

Some families send flowers or small packages with personalized stationery or homemade cookies. Ask your counselor for other suggestions if you want to send something, but keep in mind that your au pair will have to transport whatever it is to your house. Faxes can be received by the hotel and are also a nice way to say hello.

Before she travels to your home, prepare a welcome sign made by the children. You can display it at home or use it at the airport or train station. Make sure her room is clean and ready for her. Mark the au pair’s birthday on the family calendar.

When she arrives at your home, she will be tired, excited and probably anxious. Keep in mind the fatigue that being in a new culture causes, particularly if your au pair is not a native English speaker. The au pair needs time to recover from jet lag.

It’s important to give her a few days to unpack, rest and become acclimated to the host family’s home, family and neighborhood before expecting her to assume full child care responsibilities. She should be allowed to find ways to make her space her own; mounting a bulletin board on the wall is one easy way to do this.

According to Department of State regulations, au pairs are not allowed to assume sole responsibility for the children until after she has been in the home three days. Giving her the opportunity to bond with the children one at a time is helpful in building relationships. Those first few days can be used to complete the child care questionnaire for each of your children, to conduct a tour of the neighborhood, to go to the grocery store to determine her food preferences and for her to see the variety of foods available in the US, and to share information about the house and her chores. Many families also use this time to have the au pair drive for the first time.

The Community Counselor will call and/or visit within the first forty-eight hours after the au pair’s arrival.

Some other adjustment issues to keep in mind:

  • The au pair may be confused by directions with so many new things to learn, especially as she works to adapt to a new language and surroundings.
  • She may be homesick, possibly suffering from stomach indigestion as she tries to adapt to new foods, diet and a different time zone.
  • Children may be both excited and apprehensive about the au pair’s arrival, and their behavior patterns may be different from how they generally behave. With patience they will weather the transition.
  • Host parents may need to adapt to sharing living space with a young adult.

Putting time and effort into a positive welcome experience and being prepared for what typically happens in the first few days will give your match a strong foundation to build on.

http://www.aupairinamerica.com/resources/host_family_tips/welcome.asp

 

Anne Lise arrived from France recently and was very happy with the welcome by her host family. She was touched to see that her host children drew not one but a whole gallery of pictures to decorate her room.

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“I was very well received by the family! I arrived at night and in the morning the girls came to see how I was. After when I went to say hello, they all made me a kiss and a hug.” (Anne Lise)

 

 

Volunteering at Katrina 10

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Au pairs jumped at the opportunity to support their “home for a year” city.

Desiree from South Africa, Nadine, Johanna and Anastasia from Germany joined volunteers at Citywide Day of Service – Katrina 10: Resilient New Orleans.

They spent Saturday, August 29th (the 10th anniversary of Katrina’s strike) working hard at Gentilly Terrace Charter School. They said it was fun and rewarding experience.

 

 

 

Host Family International Day in City Park

Host families, children and au pairs gathered for our annual picnic and Host Family International Day in City Park this past Sunday.

Great company, delicious food and beautiful weather made the event especially successful.

While the parents enjoyed conversation, the children exercised their creativity at the crafts table, tried to eat a bagel off a string (look, ma, no hands!) and gamely faced the challenge of tied-leg races.

Multicultural awareness was brought to the forefront by everybody trying to connect world capitals to their respective countries!

The whole group enjoyed tasty food typical of different countries prepared by our wonderful au pairs.

A great time was had by all!

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Stockholm – Sweden

Canberra – Australia

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Bratislava – Slovakia

Windhoek – Namibia

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Bern – Switzerland

Warsaw – Poland

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Helsinki – Finland

Quito – Ecuador

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Sucre – Bolivia

Budapest – Hungary

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Beijing – China

Brasilia – Brazil

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Paris – France

Santiago – Chile

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Berlin – Germany

Zagreb – Croatia

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Happy Labor Day!

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Happy Labor Day to all hard working au pairs!

Labor Day is a legal holiday in the USA, celebrated on the first Monday of September. It was established in 1882 to provide working people with a guaranteed free day for rest and enjoyment. Most Americans celebrate Labor Day by having picnics, parades, and cookout. Many rush to the stores to take advantage of big discounts offered by the retailers.

Occupational Collage Craft for Children
http://www.enchantedlearning.com/crafts/laborday/

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Make a great collage by cutting pictures of workers from magazines and gluing them to poster board.

Ask your host kids the names of professions in English and then tell them the names of those professions in your language.
– teacher
– policeman
– doctor
– nurse
Give them a star or thumbs up if they can remember the words at the end of the day!

Tip: Start with names that are easy to pronounce. Pielegniarka (nurse in Polish) may be too much of a challenge! 🙂
Another option may be the phrase “Good job!” – “Dobra robota!”

Most of all, remember to have FUN!

Au Pairs Participate in Color Run

Following the example of thousands upon thousands of participants across the globe, several au pairs in our cluster took part in the Color Run in City Park, New Orleans on August 26th.

The Color Run is an event series and five kilometers paint race that takes place in North America, South America, Europe, Asia, and Australia. The untimed event has no winners or prizes, but runners are showered with colored powder at stations along the run. (wiki)

http://thecolorrun.com/about/

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Child Safety Tips

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Host families are advised to discuss child safety tips with their newly arrived au pairs and review them occasionally during the year to make au pairs are well informed and follow family’s safety rules.

Fire Safety

  • Never play with matches or cigarette lighters.  Both should be out of reach from young children.
  • Check with your family about an escape plan if there is a fire in the house.
  • Have emergency numbers posted by the telephone. Children can be taught to call these numbers in an emergency.
  • Know where a fire extinguisher is in the house and how to use it.
  • Make sure to turn the stove off after use.

Water Safety

  • Never leave children and infants unsupervised in a bathtub. Children can drown in a couple of inches of water.
  • Never leave buckets of water unattended around young children.
  • Make sure children are closely supervised when swimming in a pool.

Street Safety

  • Look both ways before crossing the street.
  • Discuss traffic lights – Green means go, Yellow means wait, Red means stop.
  • Never chase a ball into the street.
  • Streets are for cars – children should play in a yard, not the street.
  • Learn street signs and what they mean (STOP sign, CROSSWALK, etc.).
  • Never play behind parked cars on the driveway.
  • Watch carefully when walking behind parked cars.

Home Safety

  • Chemicals, bleaches, sharp knives, plastic bags, spray cans, pills and medications should all be out of reach from children.
  • Emergency Phone Numbers, including poison control center, should be posted near a telephone.
  • Inform children that leaves, stems and berries are not food and should be kept out of their mouths.   Never eat wild plants. Many of them are poisonous.   Never eat or touch toadstools that may grow around trees or in grass.
  • Unused electrical outlets should be covered.
  • Make sure smoke detectors are working.

Strangers

  • Never talk to strangers or go near a stranger’s car.
  • Do not accept money, candy or gifts from strangers.
  • Never take a ride from a stranger.

Au pairs should check with their host parents to clearly understand where children are permitted to go alone or with others. Children should always let their parents or au pair know where they are.

Back to School Check List

NOLbacktoschoolMany children in our cluster have already started school and the rest will start it shortly. To ease the transition, it’s important for host parents and au pairs to discuss changes in schedules, duties, and routines.

You may want to review the following:

  • Au pair’s schedule
  • The children’s schedule, including school and extracurricular activities
  • Breakfast routine and types of healthy food to serve
  • What to pack for lunch
  • What to do when a child is staying home sick
  • What to do when a child is late for school
  • After school routine (snacks and free time before starting homework)
  • Designated spot for school bags, lunch boxes and papers that need parent’s signature

If au pair drives children to and from school, it’s important to discuss:

  • Buckling seat belts securely
  • Lining up in a car queue
  • Making sure children get on/off on the right side of the car
  • Holding a young child’s hand in the parking lot
  • NEVER leaving a child in the car when dropping off a sibling
  • Observing 20 mph speed limit in school zones
  • Never passing a school bus when it shows a stop sign

Happy Fourth of July!

NOLflagKnown as the Fourth of July and Independence Day, July 4th has been a federal holiday in the United States since 1941, but the tradition of Independence Day celebrations goes back to the 18th century and the American Revolution (1775-83). In June 1776, representatives of the 13 colonies then fighting in the revolutionary struggle weighed a resolution that would declare their independence from Great Britain. On July 2nd, the Continental Congress voted in favor of independence, and two days later its delegates adopted the Declaration of Independence, a historic document drafted by Thomas Jefferson. From 1776 until the present day, July 4th has been celebrated as the birth of American independence, with typical festivities ranging from fireworks, parades and concerts to more casual family gatherings and barbecues.

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