Category Archives: Kids

Preventing Dehydration in Hot Weather

Dehydration means that the body lacks the necessary amount of fluid. Infants and small children are more likely to become dehydrated than older children or adults, because they can lose relatively more fluid quickly.

Here are some steps to take to make sure children remain hydrated in the summer months:

  • Encourage your child to drink plenty of water. On hot days, children should drink significantly more water than usual, as they are losing more due to the heat.
  • Do not wait until your child is thirsty to give him water. By the time they feel thirsty, they are already becoming dehydrated.
  • If your child is resistant to drinking enough water, have other liquids on hand for your child to drink throughout the day.
  • Be alert to changes in behavior. A child may act confused or more irritable when they are becoming dehydrated/overheated. Get them into cooler temperatures and drinking more fluids.
  • Dress your child in lightweight clothing in the summer months, particularly if she’ll be playing outdoors in warm weather. You may also consider clothes that are well ventilated as they do not trap heat close to the body.
  • When there are heat and/or air quality advisories because the weather is dangerously hot, you should avoid taking the children outdoors. Check with your host parents for further guidance on this topic.

Remember to follow these tips for yourself too, so you stay well hydrated.

Photo: Darwin Bell (Flickr)

Holiday & Vacation Reminders

“Rest and be thankful.” – William Wordsworth

Holidays and vacations are a great opportunity to rest, recharge and explore the U.S.

Memorial Day Weekend is the unofficial start of summer travel season. Here are some reminders about program rules regarding holidays and vacations.

Holidays

  • Host families are not required to give au pairs any specific holidays.
  • Each host family will make different arrangements on holidays, some au pairs will be off and others will be required to work.
  • Au pairs should not make plans for holidays without checking with your host family first.

Vacations

  • Au pairs earns 2 weeks of paid vacation during the course of her year.
  • Vacation time should be mutually agreed upon.
  • All vacation should be preplanned (at least 4 weeks in advance.)
  • All au pair’s friends and/or family visits/vacations should be pre-approved prior to purchasing tickets.
  • If an au pair travels with her host family, it should be discussed in advance whether this is the au pair’s vacation or if she is working.
  • If an au pair travels with the host family to work, the host family is required to pay for her transportation, lodging and meals.

Important: If an au pair is traveling outside of the U.S., she must have her DS2019 signed (travel validation) PRIOR to her departure from the US. More information about this may be found here on the Au Pair in America website.

Photo: torbakhopper (Flickr)

Handling Expenses

Host parents often ask for suggestions on how best to handle common expenses that occur as au pairs are caring for the children.

Miscellaneous Expenses

There are different ways to handle the little day to day expenses that come up.  Things like when an au pair takes the kids out for ice cream or picks up a gallon of milk.  Some families keep a cookie jar fund, a little cash that they set aside weekly or monthly for these types of expenses. Others give their au pair a prepaid debit card for this purpose. Below are some suggestions for avoiding problems with expenses.

Host Families

  • It’s important to be clear about how long this money should last and what types of expenses are approved.
  • Let the au pair know whether or not you expect receipts.

Au Pairs

  • Only spend the money on approved expenses.
  • If it is something you are not sure about, ask first.
  • Put your receipts in the cookie jar in place of the money to avoid any confusion.

Gas and Fare Cards 

Host families are responsible for the au pair’s transportation costs: to and from classes, cluster meetings and when driving the kids.

It is a good idea to figure out how much gas an au pair will use for these trips and either put gas in the car or give a gas allowance.   If your au pair is riding to classes or cluster meetings with another au pair, you should offer to share the cost of gas.

Au pairs are responsible for their own transportation at all other times.  You should replace the amount of gas used for personal use.

Photo: Andrea Travillian

Tasty Treats to Make With Pumpkin – Part 1: Pumpkin Bread

After you’ve carved a great face or design into your pumpkin,
don’t throw away the “pumpkin pulp” or seeds.
This is a first in a series of recipes using the insides of a pumpkin!
pimpkin bread
#1 Easy to make Pumpkin Bread Recipes:

Wikipedia says: Pumpkin bread is a type of moist quick bread made with pumpkin. The pumpkin can be cooked and softened before being used or simply baked with the bread. Frequent add-ins include nuts, chocolate chips or raisins.

Click here for the recipe from PickYourOwn.org

and here is a recipe from the Food Network

Eggnog Pumpkin Bread with canned pumpkin puree

Eggnog in pumpkin bread sounds delicious…off to try it!

Autumn Outdoor Fun for Au Pairs and Host Families in Montgomery County, Maryland

Corn maze

So many Pre-Halloween Activities in our Area! Pumpkin Patches, Corn Mazes, Hay Rides, Apple Picking and more…

  • MNCPPC Agricultural History Farm Park – Harvest Festival with hayrides, old-time games, music, crafts, sheep dog demonstrations, food
    18400 Muncaster Mill Road, Derwood, MD. Phone: 301-721-0312. Open: October 6th and 7th (in 2007) from 11 am to 4 pm. Cclick the link to their website for later years dates. Admission is $5 per car. There is no pumpkin patch on the property and hayrides are not given days other than for the Harvest Festival. The Farm Park is open to the public to explore the historical farm site.
  • Butler’s Orchard – pumpkin patch, 1-acre corn maze, straw maze, pumpkin coach, pony rides and more
    22200 Davis Mill Road, Germantown, MD. Phone: 301-972-3299. the pumpkin patch is open Tuesday to Friday for Pumpkin Harvest Days. the farm market is open Tuesday through Sunday. Open for Harvest Days, Tuesdays-Fridays, 9:30-5 pm; Pumpkin Festival, 10 am to 5 pm (weekends and Columbus Day, October). Admission (in 2006) is $9/person for weekend pumpkin festivals (under 2 is FREE).  Directions and map.   Evening hayrides May to December. Click here for the events calendar. Credit cards accepted. Click here for current hours and crops that are ready!
  • Gazebo Garden Center and Nursery – pumpkins, a pumpkin and straw mountain.
    13101 Clopper Rd., Germantown, MD. Phone: 301-972-1010. Through October 20, Open: Monday through Saturday 9 to 7, Sundays 10 to 6; October 21-31, Open: Monday through Saturday 9 to 8, Sundays 10 to 7. Free pumpkin patch play area with stuffed cartoon characters.
  • Great Meadows Farm – pumpkins, pumpkin patch- already gathered from the field, child-sized haybale maze, prepicked produce, restrooms, picnic area, tractor-pulled hay rides, petting zoo
    6901 Annapolis Rock Rd., Woodbine, MD 21702. Phone: 301-253-5038. Email us at: click here. Crops are usually available in September, October, November. Open: We are open by appointment September through November. Payment: Cash, Check. We are a family owned/operated petting farm specializing in pre-k/ special education classes. We have chickens, pigs, horses, sheep, goats, cats, a hay ride, picnic area, and maze. Children can feed and pet the animals, play games, and stay for a picnic lunch. We also do birthday parties and church events.
  • Homestead FarmUses integrated pest management practices, pumpkins, Pick-your-own apples, pumpkin patch-pick in the field, pumpkin patch- already gathered from the field, tractor-pulled hay rides, Honey from hives on the farm, snacks and refreshment stand, restrooms, picnic area, farm animals, school tours
    15604 Sugarland Road, Poolesville, MD 20837. Phone: 301-977-3761. Email: Click here for a map and directions. Check our website for approximate harvest dates and other information. We use integrated pest management practices. Payment: Cash, Debit cards, Visa/MasterCard, Discover. (UPDATED: May 04, 2010)
    Comments from a visitor, May 28, 2008: “My friends and I go to homestead farm (Poolesville, MD) every year for Apple and Pumpkin picking. This is the first year that we are going to do Strawberries. They have their own canned goods and cider, hayrides, and fun activities for the kids in summer and autumn.  It’s an easy ride outside of DC or from VA (and no, there are NO farms in DC to have any PYO). I love your site! thank you for your VERY valuable service! 🙂 “
  • Norman’s Farm MarketMinimizes chemical and pesticide use, pumpkin patch- already gathered from the field,
    Jones Mill Road and East-west Highway, Chevy Chase, MD 20815. Phone: 301-674-9929. Email: Click here for current open hours, days and dates. Directions: See website for directions. Click here for a map and directions. We minimize use of pesticides and other chemicals. Payment: Cash, Check, Debit cards, Visa/MasterCard, Discover, AmEx. (ADDED: February 26, 2010)
  • Phillips Farm – pumpkin patch, free hayrides, petting zoo, weekend pony rides
    13710 Schaeffer Road, Germantown. Phone: 301-540-2364. Email: Fried Green Tomatoes, Marinated Fried Green Tomatoes, Grilled Sweet Corn, Taste of Summer Salad, Stuffed Pattypan Squash.
  • Pirate Adventure Corn Maze – pumpkin patch-pick in the field, pumpkin patch- already gathered from the field, Fall festival, corn maze, haunted corn maze, tractor-pulled hay rides, wagon rides, haunted house, haunted rides, haunted trail, snacks and refreshment stand, restrooms, picnic area, Bouncy castle or moon bounce, pony rides, farm animals, birthday parties, school tours, events at your location (call for info)
    19000 Darnestown Road, Beallesville, MD 20839. Phone: 301-948-3141. Alternate Phone: 240-994-6479. Email: Click here for current open hours, days and dates. Directions: Check out our website for directions. Click here for a map and directions. Payment: Cash, only. This unique pirate themed corn maze is 5 acres and features hay rides, treasure hunts, food, games, and more.
    (ADDED: October 27, 2009)
  • Rock Hill Orchard – Apples, beans, blackberries, cherries, flowers, pumpkins, raspberries, strawberries, pumpkin patch-pick in the field, pumpkin patch- already gathered from the field, prepicked produce, tractor-pulled hay rides
    28600 Ridge Road, Mount Airy, MD 21771. Phone: 301-831-7427 And for a map to our farm, click here. Crops are usually available in June, July, August, September, October. Open: Late April through October each day 9am-5pm. Open for pick your own June through October. Call for specific dates and times. Payment: Cash, Check, Visa/MasterCard. pick your own tart cherries.
  • Rockville Flower & Garden Spot – straw maze, straw mountain, petting zoo, pony rides
    Mid-Pike Plaza Shopping Center, 11800B Rockville Pike, Rockville, MD. Phone: 301-984-3565 or 301-294-6800. Open: Through October 20, Monday-Saturday 9 to 7, Sundays 10 to 6; October 21-31, open Monday-Saturday 9 to 9, Sundays 10 to 7. Free Pumpkinville Festival takes place daily through October 31. Kids can play on a straw mountain and walk through a free, 300-foot straw maze decorated with stuffed cartoon characters. For additional fees October 21, 22 and 29, pony rides, moon bounces and other children’s activities. The Haunted Trail of Terror, an electronic walk-through attraction for ages 10 and older, additional fee required, is open Saturdays and Sundays in October.

Thanks to Pumpkinpatchesandmore.org for this abundance of information!

Winter 2010 Parenting Courses for Au Pairs and Host Families with YMCA

parentinglogo2 Below is the Winter Schedule for parenting courses offered by the YMCA at various nearbyl locations.

These topics may be useful for parents, au pairs  or YMCA1both. Many classes are free of charge! These courses are for  information/education only and do not count toward the APIA education requirements.

To sign up for courses please contact:
Pam Mintz Parenting Education Coordinator; Call (301) 229-1347 or email:  parenting@ymcadc.org or www.ymcadc.org

Dealing with a Strong Willed Child

Do you sometimes feel your child is more determined, more sensitive, more argumentative, more volatile than others?  Come and learn how to turn these strong characteristics into positive attributes and make day to day family living more tranquil.

Monday, January 11  7:00 – 9:00 p.m. Free.  Donations appreciated.   Silver Spring Library, 8901 Colesville Rd., Silver Spring

Ten Reasons Children Don’t Succeed… and Eleven Things Parents Can Do

Come to this parenting skills workshop to discover common pitfalls of parenting that deprive children of the opportunity to succeed with daily tasks of living.  Parents will learn strategies for helping kids become more confident, courageous, capable and caring.

Wednesday, January 20, 7:00 – 9:00 p.m. Free. Donations appreciated.     Bethesda Library, 7400 Arlington Rd., Bethesda

Parenting Without Threats and Bribes

Parenting tools will be the focus of this how-to workshop.  While the use of rewards and threats in disciplining may be effective in controlling behavior in the immediate situation, over time it can decrease mutual respect in the relationship.  Come learn alternative approaches.

Tuesday, January 26, 7:00 – 9:00 p.m.  Free.  Donations appreciated.   Davis Library, 6400 Democracy Blvd., Bethesda

Choosing, Making and Keeping Friends

Parents will learn how to help their child assess social situations, strategize ways to have more positive interactions, recognize and read social cues, and feel better about him or herself.

Monday, February 1, 7:00 – 9:00 p.m.   Free. Donations appreciated.   Potomac Library, 10101 Glenolden Dr., Potomac

Words:  Parenting Classes

Parenting Children

Parents will learn to identify the purposes of a child’s misbehavior and develop effective discipline and encouragement strategies for positively redirecting these behaviors.  Skills include: Developing effective consequences, structuring choices, and ending power struggles.   Required text, available first night: $20; class fee: $30.

Wednesdays, Feb 3 – March 10, 7:00 – 8:30 p.m.  YMCA Ayrlawn Program Center, 5650 Oakmont Ave., Bethesda

Parenting Teens

A down-to-earth and practical way to meet the challenges of raising teenagers.  The group discussion format teaches skills to help improve parent/teen relations; develop teen self-esteem and self-reliance; and promote responsible teen behavior at home, school and in the community.  Required text, available first night: $20; class fee: $30.

Tuesdays, February 2 – March 9, 7:00 – 8:30 p.m.    YMCA Ayrlawn Program Center, 5650 Oakmont Ave., Bethesda

Family Anger Issues

This class will help parents understand their own and their family members’ intense feelings.  Topics include:

·          Parent-child issues:  power struggles and emotional outbursts

·          Child-child issues:  sibling rivalry, dealing with conflicts.

·          Looking for patterns and creating strategies for change

·          Prevention strategies:  trigger thoughts, temperament issues

Required text, available first night: $20; class fee: $30.

Tuesdays, February 2 – March 9, 7:00 – 8:30 p.m.   Silver Spring YMCA, Child Development Ctr. 9800 Hastings Drive, Silver Spring

Improving Communication Skills for Couples

Working together as a team is a challenge for many couples.  We will learn from volunteer couples who have agreed to share the challenges and successes in their relationships.  This class will demonstrate ways to improve listening skills, increase mutual respect and stimulate playful and joyful interaction through an open forum marriage demonstration.   Class fee: $30.

Thursdays, February 4 – Feb 25, 7:00—8:30 p.m.  United Church of Christ, 9525 Colesville Road, Silver Spring

It’s easy to register on line.  Go to www.ymcadc.org.  Click on the Easy Enroll Icon and search by our branch:  YMCA Youth & Family Services

Pam Mintz Parenting Education Coordinator YMCA Youth & Family Services 7425 MacArthur Blvd Cabin John, MD  20818 301-229-1347