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A Memorandum from a Child

  • Set limits for me. I know quite well that I ought not to have all I ask for.  I am only testing you
  • Be firm with me. I prefer it. It lets me know where I stand
  • Lead me rather than force me. If you force me, it teaches me that power is all that counts. I will
    respond more readily to being led.
  • Be consistent. Inconsistency confuses me and makes me try harder to get away with everything I
    can.
  • Make promises that you will be able to keep. That will encourage my trust in you
  • Remember that I am being provocative when I say and do things just to upset you. If you fall for my
    provocations, I’ll try for more such victories.
  • Keep calm when I say “I hate you.” I don’t mean it, I just want you to feel sorry for what you have
    done to me.
  • Help me feel big rather than small. I will make up for feeling small by behaving like a “big shot.”
  • Let me do the things that I can do for myself.  If you do them for me, it makes me feel like a baby,
    and I may continue to put you in my service.
  • Correct me in private. I’ll take much more notice if you talk quietly with me in private rather than with
    other people present.
  • Discuss any behavior when the conflict has subsided. In the heat of conflict for some reason my
    hearing is not very good and my cooperation is even worse. It is all right for you to take the action
    required, but let’s not talk about it until later.
  • Talk with me rather than preach to me. You’d be surprised how well I know what’s right and wrong.
  • Help me feel that my mistakes are not bad. I have to learn to make mistakes without feeling that I
    am no good.

Au Pairs Meet Local Parents at Baby and Child Expo

On Saturday, July 7, 2012 au pairs participated in Baby and Child Expo organized by La Leche League of Jefferson. Grouped around the Au Pair in America display in the center court of Lakeview Mall in Metairie, au pairs were happy to chat with visiting families. They talked about Au Pair in America program, different options of care, program rules, cost, and the wonderful experience of sharing the culture of their respective countries with host families.

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Fun Things To Do With Kids in the Summer

Summer can be a load of fun for au pairs and their host kids provided some thinking and planning is done ahead of time.  Bored children are not good companions, so au pairs need to BE PREPARED.
It’s not wise to try and wing it. A much better way is to have a list of possible activities ready for each week.
When deciding on an activity, au pairs need to offer their host kids options but not so many that the kids get confused or overly picky. With young children “either – or” is often the best way to go.
Once the decision is made, everybody can go for it & have FUN!

Put the music on!

And dance. Let the kids pick their own tunes and make their own moves. If host mom or dad decide to join as guest stars that’s all for the better.

Jump!

Jack be nimble, Jack be quick, Jack jump over the candlestick, or a line, a branch, with a jumping rope, on one leg or two, to a tune, to count a hundred jumping jacks… the possibilities are endless.

Have a ball with the ball

Kicking, throwing, passing along, catching, rolling, chasing, bouncing, balancing on the top of the head or the tip of the foot… all the wonderful things you can do with a ball will amuse your host kids for hours on end.

Read aloud with the kids

If your kids are old enough to be able to read, find a book with a lot of dialogue and read it together dividing the roles.  Make sure to read like pros with voice modulations, shouts and whispers when appropriate, hushed silences and stern commands. Encourage your kids to get into it and improvise if they wish.

Yoga with kids

It’s okay if you can’t put your legs around your neck, just trying, together with your kids, will provide enough fun and laughter. Then you can switch to dog, cat, snake and crocodile poses and you’ll all feel like in a zoo.

Sticks and stones

Gathering and using sticks, stones, cones, seeds, shells and other natural objects to create sculptures and collages will provide hours of imaginative play.

Be crafty

Most children enjoy doing crafts and are proud of their creations. You can work with simple and inexpensive household items (yarn, old buttons, a piece of string) and with craft store materials. Make sure that the level of skill required to complete the project is appropriate for the age of your host kids.

Get under the table

The best ever idea for a rainy day is making a tent out of a blanket, a table and a couple of chairs. Sharing stories, writing notes, or playing games is so much fun under the cozy cover.

Dressing-up

Dressing up, putting on make-up and strutting around in the special getup is a perennial favorite of all children. Encouraging & helping older kids to create their own costumes will fire their imagination and produce amazing results

Cooking up a storm

Making a pudding, fixing Jell-O, peeling hard-boiled eggs, rolling out dough, decorating cupcakes will create a bit of mess in the kitchen, but the yummy results are so worth it! Just make sure the kids stay away from hot oven and sharp utensils.

Holiday Cheer

Potluck and gift exchange were on the agenda for the December cluster meeting. Just for the fun of it, au pairs unwrapped the presents while wearing oven mitts. It was a challenge, but they completed the task with great alacrity. They also had fun swapping tips on Christmas shopping and discussing holiday plans and winter break activities with their host kids.NOLxmas2011pt1NOLxmas2011pt2NOLxmasgiftsNOLxmasSuziRaelee

Au Pairs Travel in the United States….

With their host families, tour companies, friends, or all by themselves, au pairs love to travel across the United States. This summer, Laura decided to leave hot and humid New Orleans for a vacation in Alaska. She said her experience was “awesome” and we can well believe, judging by her pictures.

(As per the Department of State rule, each au pair gets two weeks of paid vacation during the one-year-long match with her host family.)

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Back to School Tips for Host Families and Au Pairs

schoolMany au pairs have never experienced a school busing system; make sure they understand how it works and what to do.

Make sure au pairs know the car line rules.

If driving the children, new au pairs should know how much time it takes to get to the school and the directions.

Pack a healthy lunch, ask your host families to review what that is… an au pair once packed a can of tuna!

School children come home with lots of notes and letters, designate a place in the house for this important information so no-one misses it.

Au pairs and host families should discuss what is expected of the au pair regarding homework.

Satchmo Fest in the French Quarter

Au pairs’ visit to Satchmo Fest on the grounds of the LA State Museum’s Old U.S. Mint in the French Quarter started with sunshine and ended with pouring rain but was fun from beginning to end. In addition to enjoying local music, cuisine, laughter, and camaraderie, au pairs also visited current museum exhibition, “Race, Are We So Different.”

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Goodbye, Joe, me gotta go, me oh my oh.
Me gotta go, pole the pirogue down the bayou.
My Yvonne, the sweetest one, me oh my oh.
Son of a gun, we’ll have big fun on the bayou.

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