Yearly Archives: 2016

Choosing between a Drivers License or Non Driving ID

Photo Credit: Eric Chu (Flickr)

Photo Credit: Eric Chu (Flickr)

Since Washington, DC is such a pedestrian-friendly city and has such a vast public transportation system, many au pairs may not be required to drive for their host families.  Non- driving au pairs often ask what is the best official identification they can get since their passports and Social Security cards have to be kept safely at home and not in their wallets.  Generally, I encourage all au pairs to get a DC Drivers License so they can:

  • drive in the event of an emergency;
  • be more easily matched in case they go into rematch because they would be ready to drive immediately for a new host family; and
  • simply to have the option to drive on road trips during their vacation and travel month.

If an au pair is convinced that driving is not for her and that she will not have to drive at all during her au pair year, then she can request a Non-Driver Identification Card also called a REAL ID Card at the DC Department of Motor Vehicles.

For more information on this topic, see http://dmv.dc.gov/service/driver-licenses

Childproofing

By Gwen Remy

With shorter days and colder weather, you and the children are probably spending more time inside the house.  Please be sure that the house is “childproof” with these simple tips:

Photo Credit: Macnetize.com (Flickr)

Photo Credit: Macnetize.com (Flickr)

  • Children are curious; many small children put everything into their mouths. Be sure no small objects are within the child’s reach.
  • Many cosmetic items and toiletries, such as mouthwash, perfume, nail polish, and hair spray, are poisonous. Keep them out of children’s reach.
  • Plastic bags, long cords and very soft pillows can be dangerous to children.
  • If a toy gets broken and has sharp edges, keep it away from children!
  • Be sure that laundry soap and other cleaners are out of reach of the children.
  • Don’t leave any medicines in reach of children, not even vitamins.
  • Keep scissors and knives out of reach.
  • Store the toys that belong to older children out of reach of babies and toddlers.

Winter Sports & Sports Insurance

Is it risky to do winter sports without the sports insurance?

Photo: Snow Snow (Flickr)

                                                     Photo: Snow Snow (Flickr)

Yes. If you have to pay your own hospital bills for a broken bone, you might be shocked at how much that would cost. I checked this website for some cost estimates. Here are a couple examples:

  • Without medical coverage, to treat a broken arm or leg (that does not require surgery) it could cost up to $2,500.
  • Without medical coverage, to treat a broken arm or leg (requiring surgery) it could cost $16,000 or more.

Please ensure you understand how your medical coverage works for sports related injuries. There is a list of “high-risk sports/activities” that are not covered with the basic or upgrade medical insurance plans. Those activities are only covered with the Sports Insurance Package (also known as Option A.)

The Sports Insurance Package was available pre-departure and may also be purchased at any time during your year. It takes effect within 48 hours of your enrollment and it is good for 12 months. The cost will be the same ($85) whether you have a month left or your whole year ahead of you. I recommend you pay for it early on, if you didn’t already purchase it. You never know when an opportunity might present itself and you don’t want to miss out on an adventure. You also don’t want to take a risk on getting injured and being responsible for the bill on your own.

Below is a partial list of sports that are only covered with the sports insurance package:
Football, Rugby, Scuba diving, Ski-doo,  Wakeboarding, Skydiving, Parachuting, Rock climbing, Zip line, Skate boarding, Rollerblading, Roller skating,  Ice Skating, SkiingSnowboardingSnowmobiles & Snowshoeing.  View the full list on page 3 of the insurance brochure HERE(2015 arrival au pairs) & HERE for (2016 arrival au pairs)
Note: Injuries sustained while partaking in these sports are covered with purchase of the Sports Insurance ONLY.

How to register for the Sports Insurance
Contact your counselor to get a copy of the Sports Insurance Enrollment Form. It takes a few days for your coverage to begin. If you think you will be doing any of these sports, you should get it now.

By Christine Connally

Special Webinars for Au Pairs

By: Kidsnotes APIA’s Host Family Blog

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At Au Pair in America we offer monthly webinars for our au pairs. Why? These webinars, led by our Orientation Team, help au pairs learn about and manage life in America, and provide useful activities, insight and advice about children and child care. And au pairs can sign up for as many as they would like!

South African au pair Dezi shared with us why she enjoyed the webinars, why she recommends them to other au pairs, and her top three webinars!

Hey everyone! My name is Dezi Henning, and I am from South Africa and lived in Massachusetts for 18 months. I had some amazing experiences during my year and one of things that helped me with that was the webinars for au pairs. My friends from orientation, Jody, Joan and Sandee, are super cool and very helpful.

Why did I continue to join the webinars? The answer is pretty simple: I always learned something, and not just from them. The great thing is that you learn from the other au pairs too. I really encourage you to join the great webinars they offer so I will share my top three webinars with you!

3. 100 Activities You Can Do With School Age Children

Why? It is always helpful to have creative ideas for things to do with the kids, especially in summer. Again, other au pairs are on the webinar and share their own ideas as well.

2. Homesickness

For those times of the year when you really miss mommy, food or your room back home! Everyone gets some sort of homesickness at some point and it’s helpful to talk about it, especially with other au pairs. Even if you are not feeling homesick, you never know when you or a friend will need it!

1. It’s Up to You: Making the Most of Your Au Pair Year

This is an amazing webinar to help you make the best of your stay! Orientation Trainer Joan discusses managing your free time, your money and your circle of friends.

Questions? Contact us at (800) 928-7247

Veterans Day

Photo Credit: The U.S. Army (Flickr)

Photo Credit: The U.S. Army (Flickr)

Friday, November 11 we celebrate Veterans Day as a Federal Holiday. Veterans Day honors all American military personnel and veterans, both living and dead, in wartime or peacetime. It is is largely intended to thank living veterans for their service.

 
As you know from the Quick Reference Guide I gave each of you when you first arrived in DC, au pairs are not entitled to Federal Holidays. Many schools, banks and government offices are closed so plan accordingly.
 
Many confuse Veterans Day with Memorial Day. Memorial Day is a day for honoring military personnel who died in the service of their country, particularly those who died in battle or as a result of wounds sustained in battle. Memorial Day is celebrated the last Monday in May.

The US Electoral Process

Photo Credit: Micheal Bentley (Flickr)

Photo Credit: Micheal Bentley (Flickr)

On November 8, Americans will cast their votes to elect their next President and Vice President. If you are wondering what the electoral process is like start by reading about the Electoral College linked below. If you’d like to do some fun election-oriented activities with your host kids, check out the Congress for Kids website.  Today, take a mental snapshot of how democracy works in the US and take time to reflect on the ways this process is similar and different from the processes in your home country.

https://www.archives.gov/federal-register/electoral-college/links.html

http://www.congressforkids.net/Constitution_threebranches.htm

Vaccine Against Influenza (Flu Shots)

Photo Credit: Army Medicine (Flickr)

Photo Credit: Army Medicine (Flickr)

The U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommend everyone over the age of 6 months get a flu vaccine to avoid contracting certain strains of influenza (also know as the flu).  Flu shots usually become available in the fall, from September to November.  Some of your host families, including the children and adults, may get the flu shot every year.  Au pairs may have questions in this regard, particularly if they are from countries where this is not standard practice.  The most common questions I receive about the flu shot are:

Do I have to be vaccinated? No, it is up to you if you have the vaccine or not, but it is highly encouraged, especially for caregivers of children and the elderly.

Does my insurance pay for it? No, your medical insurance does not cover this expense.

Then who pays for this expense, the au pair or the host family?  If I you to get vaccinated for yourself, you pay for it.  If you host family wants you to get it because you are caring for their children, then they pay for it.

Additional ways to lower your risk of the flu

The CDC also states that: “With or without a flu shot, you can take steps to help protect yourself from the flu and other viruses. Good hygiene remains your primary defense against contagious illnesses.

  • Wash your hands often and thoroughly with soap and water.
  • Use an alcohol-based sanitizer on your hands if soap and water aren’t available.
  • Avoid touching your eyes, nose or mouth whenever possible.
  • Avoid crowds when the flu is most prevalent in your area.
  • Practice good health habits. Get plenty of sleep, exercise regularly, drink plenty of fluids, eat a nutritious diet, and manage your stress.”

There are many resources on this topic, here are just a few:

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention

The Mayo Clinic

American Academy of Pediatrics

Halloween Safety Tips

Photo Credit: Martin Fisch (Flickr)

Photo Credit: Martin Fisch (Flickr)

Halloween should be a fun time for you and your host family but it is also a time when safety should come first. A few tips from the DC Police.

Costume Safety

Children should:

– Wear clothing that is bright, reflective and flame-retardant; wear short clothing that prevents tripping.

– Wear sneakers or comfortable shoes.

– Use face paint (non-toxic, hypoallergenic) and avoid masks – especially if the eye holes obstruct the child’s vision.

– See well through facemasks, or use make-up.

– Don’t wear floppy hats or wigs that slide over the eyes. Also, children should not wear long, baggy, or loose costumes or oversized shoes.

– Avoid toy weapons – if desired, use costume knives and swords that are flexible, not rigid.

– Stay away from pets. The pet may not recognize the child and become frightened.

Pedestrian Safety

– Children should stay within familiar areas and surroundings. Parents should establish a route for children.

– Children should use flashlights and stay on sidewalks.

– Children should cross the street at corners / crosswalks and not between parked cars.

– Motorists should drive slowly and watch carefully for children.

General Safety

– Many police districts, community groups, business associations and others host Halloween parties. Parents should consider these as a safe alternative to door-to-door “trick-or-treating” for their children.

– Children should never go into homes – stay on the porch or stoop when asking for treats.

– Children should avoid homes that don’t have their outside lights turned on.

– Children should never talk to strangers or get into strangers’ cars.

– Children should travel in small groups and be accompanied by parents or an authorized adult chaperone.

– Children should know their home phone number and their parents’ cell phone numbers, when applicable. They should carry coins for emergency telephone calls or know how to make collect calls.

– Children should have their names and addresses attached to their costumes.

– Children should bring home treats before eating them so parents can inspect them. When children get home, parents should inspect all candy and other treats before they are eaten. Discard all unwrapped or loosely wrapped candy or fruit.

– If you have any questions about suspicious looking treats, call the police department.

– Parents and children should carve pumpkins on a stable, flat surface with good lighting. Small children should never carve pumpkins. Instead, they can help by drawing faces with markers, while a parent does the cutting. Older children carving pumpkins should always be supervised.

– Adults should only give and accept wrapped or packaged candy.

– Adults should keep porch lights on and their driveways illuminated.

– Homeowners should ensure that their walkways are cleared of debris on which children may trip and fall. http://mpdc.dc.gov/

Dial 9-1-1 for Fire, Police or Ambulance

Photo Credit: Taber Andrew Bain (Flickr)

Photo Credit: Taber Andrew Bain (Flickr)

Excerpt from Kids Health by Nemours

Emergencies don’t happen very often. But when they do, you want to get help fast. No one wants to spend time looking up the phone number. That’s why 911 was created — to make it easy. In the United States, dialing 911 on your phone is the fastest way you can get help for yourself or someone else.

Not too many years ago, people had to find the right phone number in an emergency. Today, it’s as simple as dialing 911. With those three numbers, you can reach the fire department, the police, or an ambulance. When you call 911, an emergency operator — called a dispatcher — immediately connects you to the person you need.

Speak slowly and clearly when you explain what’s happening. The 911 emergency dispatcher may ask you what, where, and who questions such as these:

  • What is the emergency?
  • What happened?
  • Where are you?
  • Who needs help?
  • Who is with you?
  • Are you safe where you are?

If you do have to call 911 in an emergency, be sure to stay on the phone. Do not hang up until the 911 operator tells you it’s OK to do so. That way, you can be sure that the operator has all the information to get help to you fast!

Top 10 Activities for Fall

Photo Credit: Brian Richardson (Fliker)

Photo Credit: Brian Richardson (Fliker)

By Gwen Remy

Summer is over, and in many places the air is turning colder. As the weather changes be sure to take advantage of what the fall season has to offer. Even if you don’t live in a place that sees a lot colorful leaves, there are fun family-friendly ways to get outdoors this fall:

• Go apple picking. Sure, most of us can get apples year-round from the grocery store, but there’s nothing quite like orchard fresh apples, picked straight from the tree during harvest season. That crunchy, tangy, sweet apple flavor is at its peak during this time of year. Many commercial orchards will let you pick your own. It’s not only fun, it’s also a great way to show kids where their food comes from. Get extras for canning applesauce, or making pies. When you’re done, warm up with a delicious mulled cider.

• Go on a nature hike. Bring along a field guide to identify different kinds of trees. Look for wildlife collecting food for winter. Explain to kids how animals are starting to fatten up and grow thick, protective winter coats. Watch for migrating birds.

• Collect fall leaves. Press them into books or preserve them in glycerin. Paste them onto handmade paper to create greeting cards, or glue them between two pieces of wax paper to make an attractive sun catcher. Go lightly on the glue, or substitute crayon shavings to add color; use a warm iron to melt the shavings and hold the paper together.

• Take a hayride. Many farms offer hayrides during the fall. This is a great way to kick back and enjoy nature with smaller kids who may not be up for a long walk.

• Visit the pumpkin patch. Don’t buy your Halloween pumpkin from the grocery store. Go straight to the source. Kids will love wandering around the patch to pick out the perfect pumpkin. Choose a couple of big ones for jack-o-lanterns, and grab a few smaller ones for painting or general household decorations. Smaller pumpkins make great additions to fall centerpieces. Roast the seeds in your oven with a sprinkling of tasty spices, and grab a few to make pumpkin pies.

• Visit a corn maze. Many farms earn extra income for the winter by turning their cornfields into large mazes. Test your directional sense, and get some fresh air in the process. Corn mazes are fun or all ages.

• Stuff a scarecrow. Dig out an old shirt and overalls, and stuff it with leaves until firm. Add a pumpkin head (from your trip to the pumpkin patch) and you’ve got a great fall decoration.

• Fly a kite. The gusty, brisk air makes autumn a great time for flying kites. Buy one from the store, or make your own from two long sticks, strong paper, and string.

• Have a bonfire. Invite some friends over for a backyard bonfire. The chill in the air makes fall the perfect time to sit together by the warmth of a blazing fire with a nice warm mug of cocoa or cider. Be sure to get any necessary permits from your town first.

• Make a leaf pile and jump in!