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Pattie Fitzgerald on Children’s Safety

As a part of the Gooden School’s Parent Education Live Speaker Series, children’s advocate, author, and founder of Safely Ever After, Inc., Pattie Fitzgerald will speak on on Thursday, November 15 at 6:30 p.m. Pattie is recognized as a leading expert in the field of childhood sexual abuse prevention education, child abduction prevention, and internet safety education. You can read more about Pattie Fitzgerald here

Thursday, November 15 at 6:30 p.m.

The Gooden School , 192 N. Baldwin Avenue, Sierra Madre, CA 91024

Admission is free, but space is limited; RSVP by Nov. 12  to GFA@goodenschool.org.

Flyer – Pattie Fitzgerald EXTERNAL

Flu Shot Time!

Now is the time to discuss getting the flu shot with your host parents.  The “Flu” is generally thought of as a routine illness that makes you feel lousy for a week or two.  But the reality is that “Influenza” is an historically deadly illness in America.  Each year, different strains of the flu are passed from person to person.  Some years and in some people, the flu is not much worse than the common cold.  Some years, thousands of people accorss the US end up in hospitals with dangerous respiratory viruses that began as the flu and ended up as pneumonia or other dangerous complications.

According to WebMD, the Flu is “an extremely contagious respuratory illness…[that] appears most frequently in winter and early spring.  The flu virus attacks the body by spreading through the upper and/or lower respiratory tract.”  Symptoms of the flu include high fever, body aches, fatigue, weakness, and an increased likeliness of contracting pneumonia.  Flu symptoms can come on abruptly, and are extremely contagious.

New strains (or types) of the flu evolve every few years.  Scientists at the CDC (or Centers for Disease Control, a well-respected agency that is an off-shoot of the Federal Department of Health and Human Services) study and re-work the flu vaccine every year to tweak its components and make it effective against the up-and-coming version of the flu.  It is the reccommendation of the CDC that every healthy person in the US over the age of 6 months receive the flu shot.  

The influenza vaccine was invented in 1938 and has had varying degrees of effectiveness over the years.  In 1976, however, amid a very-well-reported bad outbreak of the flu, the US goverment injected a large amount of additional $$ funding into developing a more effective version of the vaccine.  The vaccine has developed steadily into an essential way of staying healthy.  It has been reccommended for virtually all children and adults since 2010.

There are many  anecdotal reports of people “getting sick from the flu shot.”  I’m sure we have all heard stories attesting to incidents of this happening.  Concerned, I began asking every doctor I knew about this.  To a person, they all told me that people cannot possibly get the flu from the flu vaccine.  But if they offered a reason for this social debate, I still couldn’t understand it. Until I asked my son’s pediatrican.  Dr. Peggy Legault is a very well respected doctor in Passadena who seems to believe in cautious action and logical analysis.  It all finally made sense to me when she told my wife and I that people don’t get sick from the flu shot, they get sick from going to the doctor’s office.  It makes sense: you go to a place where sick people go; you touch the door handle; you use their pen to sign in; you wipe a tear from your eyes after the shot; a week later you feel sick.

I strongly urge every Au Pair to do three things this month:  

  1. Read about the flu shot from a respected independant source such as the CDC website.  Walgreens and Rite Aid also offer very good information, but their goal is to sell you the vaccine.  Thte Washington Post newspaper also offers a good independent article about flu shots.
  2. Think about the children in your care and know that if you get the flu you will upset their routine dramatically for one to two weeks while you are stuck in bed not able to care for them.  Discuss vaccination with your host parents and ask them if they will pay for it.  There are many places you can get a flu shot for free, but even if you end up paying for it, it usually costs around $30.  Most host parents will be happy to pay for the vaccine to protect you, and those who don’t want to pay for it are usually able to help you find a free one.
  3. Get the flu shot in an open public place, but don’t touch anything.  When you go into the clinic or pharmacy, only touch a door handle, pen or desk when you need to.  Be extremely concious of what your hands are doing, and don’t touch your face, especially your mouth or eyes.  Bring antibacterial gel or use their’s, and thoroughly wash your hands with soap and water after you leave.  For extra credit, wash change and wash your clothes and shoes when you get home.  By using a few minutes of extreme caution, You will prevent yourself from getting sick!

And just so you know that I “practice what I preach,” my whole family got our flu shots last week.  My son went to his pediatrician, where our insurance covered the cost.  My wife and I went to CVS where getting the shot was much quicker and easier than going to our doctor’s office, it was $38.

Women’s Self Defense Class

Learn to defend yourself against a potential attacker, and feel more confident while traveling in unfamiliar cities.  Only $25 for a two-hour workshop that may have life-long impact.   

Saturday, August 25 @ 3pm  and

Saturday, September 29 @ 3pm

So Cal Kenpo Karate, Sierra Madre

Master Katie Williams Robinette will take everyone through basic striking techniques that will help you defend yourself from many bad situations. In the course of two hours you will be equipped enough to be aware of your own body and how to use it!

Volunteer for the Santa Monica Classic

Copyright © 2018 Conqur Endurance Group, All rights reserved.

The Santa Monica Classic 5K, 10K, and Kids Run are just around the corner, coming to the beautiful Santa Monica Pier on Sunday, September 9th! Be a part of this unique, sellout race that kicks off the Conqur LA Challenge.

Volunteers are needed for the following days:
– Saturday, September 8, 2018 – Pre-Race Packet Pickup (Reed Park)
– Sunday, September 9, 2018 – RACE DAY @ the Start Line, Finish Line, and Water Stations

Au Pair In America Volunteers will be handing out water at one of the mile markers.  Typically, volunteers are given a hat and/or a shirt or some other sort of nice “swag.” The LA Marathon was reported by APIA Volunteers to be an Amazing event.

Get more info

Sign up to Volunteer with the APIA group! (select water station stop at the top of the page)

 

May is National Water Safety Month

 

With summer right around the corner, now is a good time to remind yourself of important water safety guidelines.  It is important for all adults in the children’s lives to be on the same page about swimming pool rules, and an even better idea to use a Water Watcher Card for each child you take to the beach or pool.

According to Stop Drowning Now, a national water-safety organization, a Water Watcher Card is an important lifesaving tool.  “The Water Watcher Card is to be worn by a responsible adult whose only job is to actively supervise the children in the water for a specific amount of time ([such as] 15-minute shifts).  Water watcher tags are critical during parties or large gatherings. In 94% of the instances when a child drowns, adults thought another adult was watching the child. Water watcher tags are helpful in taking the guesswork out of “who is watching the children.“*[ http://www.stopdrowningnow.org]

A Water Watcher Card is a laminated reminder card attached to an elastic bracelet or lanyard.

Several different versions are available as free downloads:

or you can order them already made:

Brush up on important swimming safety tips:

“8 Life-Saving Water Safety Rules Every Parent Needs to Know” (Parents Magazine)

“Water Safety” (Kids Health)

“The Ultimate Guide to Swimming Safety For Kids” (Mom Loves Best)

“13 Water Safety Tips Every Parent Should Know” (via Buzzfeed)

Water Safety: Tips for Parents of Young Children” “Healthy Children.org)

Things to do

I love my son, but sometimes he drives me totally nuts!  This past long weekend is a perfect example.  All he wanted to do, it seemed, was lay on the sofa in his pajamas and watch TV.  I couldn’t even get him to play legos with me, a pastime we often enjoy together.

Finally, as I was cleaning up, I spied a board game that we had recently purchased but hadn’t played yet.  I waited until his TV show was ending and suggested we play the game.  Surprisingly, he jumped at the chance!

While we were playing it occurred to me that I hadn’t been reading the Mom Websites much lately.  Then I realized that I had been waiting for my son to come up with ideas on what to do, rather than telling him what our plans are.  He’s not a very creative kid, so asking him to come up with ideas on his own doesn’t usually work.  I discovered long ago that I have to give him options to choose from.

Had I planned ahead, this lazy weekend could have been avoided.  We could have been out in the community having fun and learning new things.  But I forgot to plan something.

If any of this sounds familiar to you, you might appreciate the attached listing of Things To Do Locally.  The first section is how to find things to do in the area with children, and the rest will help you find out more about what is going on in your community so you can explore on your own.

things to do locally

A little bit of planning ahead, and offering two or three options to the kids to have input on can make a huge difference!  And to be clear, the options offered should never be: “Do you want to go to this event with me?,” but rather: “When we go out this afternoon, do you want to go to Event A or Event B?”

So, when you have time, explore the Mom Websites listed and sign up for some newsletters.  The site will email you when something cool is happening in your area.

 

Staying Healthy Amid a Flu Outbreak

Staying Healthy Amid a Flu Outbreak

 

The Flu is an illness that usually includes sore, achy muscles; fatigue; sometimes a fever and a general malaise; and can keep you in bed for up to two weeks.  This season, the news contains daily stories of this year’s flu epidemic, which is one of the deadliest strains in years.  Read on to find out how you can remain healthy.

 

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (a well-established and highly esteemed U.S. government agency), “Influenza (flu) is a contagious respiratory illness caused by influenza viruses. It can cause mild to severe illness. Serious outcomes of flu infection can result in hospitalization or death.”*2

The flu affects the nose and mouth and possibly the lungs.  The CDC states that symptoms include many (but not necessarily all of) the following: cough, sore throat, runny or stuffy nose, muscle or body aches, headaches, fatigue, sometime a fever or fever and chills, and sometimes vomiting or diarrhea.  It is spread by direct contact, such as touching something upon which an infected person has coughed or sneezed.  The symptoms usually come on 1 to 4 days after the exposure, and begin suddenly.

So, how do you avoid getting sick?  Doctor Adrian Cotton states in a National Public Radio interview*1: “the No. 1 thing people can do is wash their hands, wash their hands and wash their hands. Stay away from people that have active flu-like symptoms, which is fevers, chills, heavy cough. But washing hands is probably the biggest thing that can be done. And then No. 2 is get the influenza vaccine. And then the third thing we’re telling people is if you think you have the flu, please don’t go to the emergency room. Please find – call your primary care doctor and go see them first. And, you know, save the emergency room for if you’re really, really sick.”

Remember that the disease is contagious before you begin to feel its symptoms, so it’s especially important to wash your hands and the hands of the children in your care frequently.  Toys, pacifiers, or anything a child puts in his or her mouth should be washed before and after use.  Water with soap will remove the germs.  Water with a few drops of bleach will kill the germs, as will anti-bacterial gel.  It’s a good idea to carry hand wipes or antibacterial gel with you when you go out, and avoid direct contact with countertops and door handles when possible by using a clean paper towel in between the surface and your hand, or simply not touching what you don’t really need to.  If you do touch a common surface, such as a door handle, be sure not to touch your eyes, nose, mouth or food until you’ve washed your hands thoroughly.

 

Other great articles about the flu epidemic:

“Planes and the flu: 6 things to know to help you stay healthy while flying” By ABC News, Jan 18, 2018, 7:41 AM ET, http://abcnews.go.com/Health/planes-flu-things-stay-healthy-flying/story?id=52418032

“TIPS: How to Stay Healthy this Flu Season” ABC Channel 15 Arizona, by Cameron Polom, Jan 12, 2018, 6:23 PM,  https://www.abc15.com/news/state/tips-how-to-stay-healthy-this-flu-season

 

Citations:

*1  Kelly McEvers, NPR Southern California Public Radio, transcribed by Verb8tm, Inc.Heard on All Things Considered, January 16, 20184:34 PM ET, “As Flu Season Strains Hospitals, Doctor Offers Advice For How To Stay Healthy”  https://www.npr.org/2018/01/16/578422409/as-flu-season-strains-hospitals-doctor-offers-advice-for-how-to-stay-healthy

 

*2 Centers for Disease Control and PreventionNational Center for Immunization and Respiratory Diseases (NCIRD), October 5, 2017, maintained by: Office of the Associate Director for Communication, Digital Media Branch, Division of Public Affairs, “About Flu” https://www.cdc.gov/flu/about/index.html