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Dealing with Social Distancing

The coronavirus has caused lots of temporary changes to our daily routines. Right now, we are being asked to practice “social distancing” to reduce the spread of the virus.

What is social distancing?
Social distancing is a way to keep people from interacting as closely or frequently enough to spread the virus. Schools, sporting events and concerts are being canceled. People are being asked to stay at home more to avoid being in contact with a large number of people.

What are some ways to take care of yourself?
Some people may feel anxious, lonely or frustrated and that is totally normal. It can be very helpful to talk with friends and family about those feelings. It helps to know that others are going through these same emotions. Reach out to your community counselor if you need support during this time.

It is very important to practice good self-care. Connect with people you love via Skype and text, maintain a healthy diet, stay active, make plans for things you want to do once things get back to normal. Staying out of crowds doesn’t have to mean just staying in the home. You can go for walks and enjoy nature. Both exercise and spending time in nature are beneficial for your mental health.

Where can you get practical tips for dealing with social distancing?
We recognize that some of these changes will require patience and resourcefulness. During this time, we will be doing a series of blog posts with resources to assist you with two specific aspects of this situation:

  • Ideas for keeping the kids occupied (while they are home from school)
  • Ways to continue your cultural exchange from home

Photo: Meg Willis  

Making Thanksgiving Memories Together

Thanksgiving is a public holiday celebrated on the fourth Thursday in November every year in the United States. It started as a harvest festival and has been celebrated nationally on and off since 1789.  The most important part of Thanksgiving for American families is to spend family time together.

Martin Cathrae

 “My favorite holiday was Thanksgiving. Firstly, it was my first holiday with the whole family in America. Secondly, the whole family came together. All aunts and uncles and their kids came to grandma’s. We played football with all of them, including grandma and grandpa. It was the first time I played it and it was so much fun for all. We had a great dinner with all the typical things you can imagine … it was deeeelicious! It was so great to be with such a big family and I really enjoyed that day. I will remember it my whole life, I hope.” – Swantje from Germany

Here are a few tips to help you have a terrific Thanksgiving experience.

Host Parents
Please plan to include your au pair in your Thanksgiving celebration, if at all possible. If you are traveling or will not be able to invite your au pair to join you for Thanksgiving, give her plenty of notice and help her make alternate plans. You don’t want to leave your au pair alone over the holiday.

Au Pairs
If you are invited to attend dinner, please let your family know within 5 days of the invitation, whether you are planning to attend, so they may make plans. If your host family is unable to include you in their Thanksgiving plans, please let me know if you have trouble making other plans, so I can assist.

Make sure to discuss time off during this holiday weekend. Many host families work the Friday after Thanksgiving so do not assume you have this day off or the entire weekend. Talk to your host family, BEFORE you make any plans.

Bonus Tip for the Kids
If you are looking for a fun recipe to make with your au pair, check out these turkey cookies. Find more fun activities and recipes on the Au Pair in America Fall Holidays pinboard.

 

Avoiding Homesickness this Holiday Season

Homesickness can be a problem during the holidays, even if it hasn’t been at any other time of the year. Au pairs often miss their friends and family, familiar places and their own traditions and customs. The holiday activities in the United States seem, and may actually be, different just at a time when an au pair would welcome something familiar. 

It is common for au pairs’ emotions to be close to the surface during the holidays. Her highs are higher, her lows are lower. The enormity of what she has done–actually living in another country (which is an amazing thing when you think about it!)–hits her and throws her into a self-protective mode.

Host parents can help her through this unfamiliar territory by talking to her about what your specific family activities will be (gifts, meals, visitors, religious services, in-home traditions, or none of these, as the case may be.) In the spirit of cultural exchange, ask her if she has any favorite holiday traditions or foods that you might be able to incorporate into your family’s celebration of the season. Let her know what you will be doing, when you will be doing it, and what she can expect. Talk to her about what has to be accomplished and get her involved and interested. Don’t expect her to just “know” what needs to be done. Give her some clear, agreed upon assignments. Make her feel a part of things. And, let her know her contribution is needed and appreciated.

Photo: Sheila Sund (Flickr)

5 Thanksgiving Tips for Au Pairs & Host Parents

Thanksgiving is celebrated on the fourth Thursday of November each year. Even though a few other countries also celebrate Thanksgiving, it’s still considered a uniquely American holiday, one that the au pairs look forward to experiencing. You can learn more about it here.

I really enjoyed Thanksgiving with my host family. It was as I imagined! So much food to try. Everyone got dressed up and shared what they were thankful for. It was so warm and special. The next day we began to prepare for Christmas. It was magical.” Selina from Germany

Below you will find some tips to help you have a terrific Thanksgiving experience.

 

Host Parents

1.  Please plan to include your au pair in your Thanksgiving celebration, if at all possible. Thanksgiving with an au pair offers an opportunity to consider the relevance of the history and meaning of Thanksgiving as you compare the hospitality offered by the Native Americans to the recently arrived Pilgrims and the hospitality you offer your au pair.

2.  If you are traveling or will not be able to invite your au pair to join you for Thanksgiving, give her plenty of notice and help her make alternate plans. You don’t want to leave your au pair alone over the holiday.

Au Pairs

3.  If you are invited to attend dinner, please let your family know within 5 days of the invitation, whether you are planning to attend. It is considered rude in America to accept the invitation for dinner and then change your mind later in the month. Please be thoughtful.

4.  Make sure to discuss time off during this holiday weekend. Many host families work the Friday after Thanksgiving so do not assume you have this day off or the entire weekend. Talk to your host family, BEFORE you make any plans.

5.  If your host family is unable to include you in their Thanksgiving plans, please let me know if you have trouble making other plans. You may be able to join a friend and their host family for the holiday dinner.

Bonus Tip for the Kids

If you are looking for a fun recipe to make with your au pair, check out these turkey cupcakes. Find more fun activities and recipes on the Au Pair in America Fall Holidays pinboard.

Photo: Tim Sackton (Flickr)

TIPS FOR DRIVING IN EXTREME( AND NON-EXTREME) WEATHER

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Many factors can contribute to an automobile accident, and weather can set the stage for collisions. But it isn’t just inclement weather that can get the best of us while we’re on the road. Weather can affect driving at any time of the year.

The lingering effects of winter are still making vehicles susceptible to damage—just ask any driver who has cracked a wheel driving over a deep pothole. In addition, the storms this time of year bring slick roads, hail, strong wind gusts and flooding, all of which can affect your vehicle.

Here are a few weather conditions that can affect driving and some tips on how to drive in them:
Tips for driving in the rain:

  • Turn on your headlamps to help other drivers see you
  • Slow down and leave room for stopping
  • Avoid slamming on your brakes to help prevent skids
  • Don’t drive through standing water or flooded roads

When driving in fog:

  • Use low-beam headlamps to see and help others see you
  • Give yourself time to react when visibility is low
  • Avoid sudden stops in case there are vehicles behind you
  • Use the road edge or painted road marking as a guide

In sunny weather:

  • Use your visor to help block out the sun
  • Make sure your windshield is clean inside and out
  • Use your headlamps to help other drivers see you coming
  • Use lane markings as a guide when it’s too bright to see

Applying for a library card and getting the kids excited about reading

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Arlington county (www. library.arlingtonva.us)and Falls Church (www.fallschurchva.gov/424/Library) libraries offer story time on a weekly basis.Don’t miss out on them and locate a branch that is close to you.

They also host additional events such as Nanny club,Paws to read and the American Girl program.

Visit your local branch or check the website to find one that offers a program best suited to your child.

You can also check out other options at Barnes and Noble in Clarendon (store-locator.barnesandnoble.com/store/2068),Bartons Child’s Play on Lee Highway(www.bartonschildsplay.com) or Kinder Haus Toys on North Fillmore Street(www.kinderhaus.com)

Au pairs, don’t forget to apply for a free library card-both Arlington and Falls Church cards can be used at any libraries in our cluster.

To apply ,go to any local library,fill out an application and provide a valid proof of address.

Valid proof of address includes (but is not limited to) a driver’s license, bill or delivered mail.

HAPPY READING!

TRAVELING OUTSIDE THE USA

Spring is in the air and travel plans are budding in the au pair world,but please remember:

If you are planning to travel outside the US during your first year, your DS 2019 will need a travel signature.  You will also need to check if you need visa to enter the country you intend to visit.  Obtaining a tourist visa is solely the responsibility of the au pair.

~Three weeks before you plan to travel, mail your original DS-2019 Form and a self-addressed stamped envelope (so your signed DS 2019 may be returned to you) to

Au Pair in America

River Plaza

9 West Broad Street

Stamford, CT 06902

Attn.: Evelyn Blum

A complete travel validation form can be found in this blog under “Travel and Places”

Have a great trip!

Rainy days activities

The forecast for our area this week is mainly rain,but this will not stop our au pairs from having fun with their kids.

Here are some fun ideas to try out and make the best out of a rainy day:

Listen to Music and Dance Day
Don’t let the rain or snow stop you from being active. Put on a lively tape and dance
around the house today. Show the children some traditional dance moves from your
country!

Tea Party Day
Mix up some warm cocoa or milk and invite the dolls or stuffed animals for a tea party

Art Day
Make today an art day – try drawing, painting, creating with glue or clay.

Make a necklace today– use a licorice “shoelace” (the really long thin ones) and cereal
for young children and then they can eat the whole thing. For something less sticky, use
string instead of the licorice.

Puzzle Day

Do a puzzle or make one of your own. Find a fun picture in a magazine and glue it to
lightweight cardboard. Cut into shapes.

Make a Pie

Pies are popular every day and are easy to make if you buy a prepared crust in the freezer
or dairy section of the grocery store. Try this easy recipe;
Chocolate Pie
Purchase pre-made pie shell and Jell-O instant chocolate pudding. Prepare pie shell per
directions. Let cool. Prepare pudding, pour into pie shell, let set for an hour and voila!
Dessert is served!

Pet Rocks

Make an imaginative pet using a smooth stone. Draw a face with marker or paint.
Decorate with feathers, sequins, yarn, buttons, or whatever else you can find.

Have a pretend day at the beach
Put on swimsuits and relax on beach towels. Pretend you can hear the ocean!

Stamping
Rubber stamps and stamp pads are fun, but for a change try sponge and some kitchen
utensils or cut shapes into a potato, apple, or orange. You could even let the child dip his
or her hand into some water-based paint to make great pictures.

Indoor Gardening

Children love to watch things grow! Take a root vegetable (potato, carrot, turnip or
beet) and cut off the top 1-2 centimeters. Hollow out the inside. Tie a string around the
vegetable and fill it with water. Hang it in a window and watch what happens! Don’t
forget to add water as needed.

Make your own snowstorm

Find a clear glass jar, any size, with a tight fitting lid and no label. Cut a piece of
aluminum foil into teeny, tiny pieces. The easiest way is to first cut strips then cut across
the strips into little pieces. The smaller the pieces, the more it will look like real snow. It
takes a lot of flakes (and patience) to make a good snowfall.
Don’t stop until you have enough to at least completely cover the bottom of the jar. Cut a
small evergreen branch for your tree. Fill the jar with water, add the tree and one drop of
dishwashing liquid and put the lid on. Turn the jar over, give it a shake and put it down
right side up. Watch the snow fall!

Treasure Hunt!

Pretend you are all on a desert island looking for treasure. Make a map or place clues
around the house leading the children through the hunt. This can be done with pictures
for non-readers – draw a picture of the television, then at the television place a picture of
the stove. At the stove place a picture of a bed, and so on to the end. The “treasure” can
be a treat to eat, or a new game to play. Read books about pirates to add to the fun.

Build a playhouse today

Find a box from a large appliance and turn it into a playhouse to use indoors. Cut
windows and a door. Furnish it and decorate it as you wish.

Make a fort today
Use blankets and couch cushions to make a fort and play inside. Don’t forge to put
everything away!

Make a picture frame

Glue 4 Popsicle sticks (available in craft departments) in a square to make a frame.
Decorate the frame with glitter, lace, yarn, feathers, stickers, confetti or whatever you
have on hand. Mount a picture from the back and be sure to date it! You can also
glue a magnet on from the back so that the picture can hang on the refrigerator. (This
activity is suitable for children 3 and older)

GET YOUR LITTLE HELPERS ORGANIZED:DESIGN A JOB CHART

Martha Stewart Kids, Volume 8 2003

Tired of nagging your kids about chores — and hearing the same excuses? A magnetic job chart keeps track of who has done what. The entire thing is designed on a computer, then printed on inkjet magnet sheets, which are thin and easy to cut.

Job Chart How-To
Design colored rectangles with the names of chores typed inside them. If you like, color-code magnets according to level of difficulty or frequency (every day, once a week, and so on). Kids’ photos can be scanned in or downloaded from a digital camera. Assemble chore names and photos on one computer page, then print onto a magnet sheet; cut out. To make the chart, design a column for each child, with areas labeled “chores to do” and “chores completed.” Print onto a magnetic sheet, and post it on the refrigerator, adding kids’ photos and chore magnets.

JUNE 20TH IS FATHER’S DAY

Calendar Day

Father’s Day

To honor the father in your family, work together to make one of these special homemade gifts:

Make a special card for a special dad, granddad or uncle. Enjoy these cards for Father’s Day!

Also check out our other Father’s Day ideas for even more great ideas including Father’s Day crafts, coloring pages and tasty recipes just for Dad!

car dad  bear

Father’s Day Car Father Bear

dog gift kids n  dad

Puppy Dog with Dad Dad with Kids

hug bears

Hugging Dad Bear Dad with Cubs
winner kiss

Dad Award Dad and Daughter
balloon fishing

Hot Air Balloon Dad Fishing Father
#1 ribbon bear painting

Dad Award Ribbon Number One Dad Bear
bear painting family

Bear Message for Dad Dad with Family
More fun Father’s Day printables and activities:

From Kaboose.com